As a Joke
Many times individuals lie to tell jokes. Does that make it a good thing? Maybe not, but I guess it will depend on the person. If it is perhaps Halloween, and a group of kids are planning a scare, one of them might lie to get an individual trapped into their prank. Even in simple sarcastic conversations one may tell a lie, but was only being sarcastic with actually no intention of harming or deceiving the person. In either case, this form of lying, as a joke, is one of the reasons why people lie.
To Escape Punishment
Another reason why people lie is to escape punishment. If a child knows that he's done something wrong and is afraid he is going to get punished for it, the natural reaction of a human is to lie to prevent it. However, many times that just makes it worse, and so in some cases people know to tell the truth up front to avoid getting caught in a lie later. On the other hand, those that do tell a lie are simply doing so as a risk to avoid punishment.
Deceptive Gain
This is form of lying is probably the most harmful. In many cases, this form of lying is no different than taking another's belongings or life, but many still seem to do it regardless of the outcomes. Why do people do it? Well, that question can be debated. Many couples do this to cheat on their spouse. Many thieves do this to steal others' belongs. Many individuals do this to control the minds of people to get them to do what they want to do. Whatever the reason of this deceptive form of lying, most people do it as a form of deceptive gain.
Confused Mind
The final reason why people lie is when individuals don't know the truth. Perhaps the person is taught something, and it is passed on to the next. It may be a lie, but the person still believes it. So if they really believe it, then are they lying? They aren't lying intentionally, but are still doing so because of not telling the truth. With this form of lying, the reason why people do this is mainly because of blind believing, or fear. Many times (although unintentional) it can be just as problematic as to that which is done for deceptive gain.
Those are the 4 main reasons why people lie. Is there a way to stop people from lying? Are all of them bad? Well, that depends on whom you ask. Whether it is a good or bad, can or cannot be prevented, the main reasons are revealed.
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Post a CommentWell, I do not lie...will refuse to speak before telling a lie.. but I would lie to save my life or the life of someone else. However, I did lie as a child because the punishment for "mistakes" was severe...got a broken rib for one...so, there is something to think about. Just remember, "Thou shalt not lie" is not one of the Ten Commandments. "Thou shalt not bear false witness" is and I do not lie about other people.
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my dad used to lie since we were kids. we felt very bad about thatbecause people bullied us. but when i grew an adult i understood that my father used to do that for fun. the lies were jokes that he created on himself which easily be detectable as a lie. but could catch the attention of anyone. and at the same time he got the attention of people gathering around him and he felt important.people buulied behind his back but carried the jokes everywhere but taking the name of my dad
lying is not a good thing to do but sometimes it is usefull to do so. people lie all the time. some of them say they never do but that's a lie they just do right there. some lie because they want their
life to sound perfect to others,they lie to be popular,they lie to be the perfect person they thought they are but inside that person know that is a lie.
lying is not a good thing to do but sometimes it is usefull to do so. people lie all the time. some of them say they never do but that's a lie they just do right there. some lie because they want there life to sound perfect to others,they lie to be popular,they lie to be the perfect person they thought they are but inside that person know that is a lie.
Lying is all my ex husband did, and the only thing he was good at. He even went into a 2nd marriage on lies and she still doesn't know, stupidity, & lies what a great combination. Liars are ..trying to control a situation that is to be in their interest & being, NO-ONE Else selfishness. you will never have trust with even 1 lie, Once a Liar Always A Liar. They Don't change..Ever!
My nephew 25 constantly lies all the time to everyone and they are aware of it, because of the lying he hardly has any friends.
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am a retired decorated veteran that worked for UPS in management and it was
a nightmare to say the least. I found UPS management to be dishonest,
deceitful, and incredible disrespectful to their employees. I was not a
proponent of the union but I am now. I encourage anyone who is seeking
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management is paid less than
sad but i lie to hide the ugly truth about myself...or because I don't know how to say "no" properly.
but these things make you paranoid once in a while. :T
if a person doesnt know they are lying i wouldnt say that theyre wrong