The 5 Top Relationship Deal-Breakers from a Man's Point of View

For a woman to be in a relationship with multiple men, and to have the situation thrown in the man's face you are just dating, is a big mistake and will surely run that man away. Men want to feel they are in a great love relationship with that woman, even though we may have other women on the side when we are dating them. But one thing I can say about men, we don't flaunt the other women in our lives. We try to be discreet, but sometimes the woman just wants to know if she is the only one. All egos aside, for men this is a turn off and a great deal breaker ladies.

Kids

This can be a win or lose situation here, I have dated women with kids and for dating advice tips, let me say all kids are not created equally. Some kids have problems, whether it's a failed marriage, family counseling issues, or just puberty. If you are in the relationship with the woman long enough you can see where the problem may lie. An unruly kid can definitely be a turn off that will have that man turn on the car to get away fast. So women if you have bad kids, hold off on letting your kids interact with the man you plan on marrying until you get pre marital counseling, have the ring on the finger, and the marriage licensed signed.

Ex Lover's

That's exactly what they are ex's, that's why they are not with you, let them go. Unless they had no choice but to be away from you, like being lock up. Yeah Right! Some women are in relationships with men just to have them around to catch a movie with, a man for sex, a man to pay the bills, and a man around just to cry on his shoulder. If this ex comes into the picture, the man you are dating will definitely not hang around, and may even allow you to put him in one of the categories we mentioned above. Well at least one of them, don't laugh men the deal is already broken.

Family

Women keep your family out of the relationship until you take family pictures. The man you are dating can't get your uncles car out of the police tow garage, or take cousin Mike to the house around the corner to pick up a suspicious package. This type of family will have that man changing his number the second he leaves your presence. Men love it when your family stays out of the relationship long enough for you guys to find out about each other. And no I have never driven someone I was dating cousin around the corner to pick up a suspicious package, but I have been to a barbecue I could not wait to leave, and my friends did roast me on the way home and yes that was a deal breaker.

Work status

For all the single ladies out their please don't quite your job once you meet a man with a good one. I had a lady I dated once that stole the tip money from a restaurant we attended, stopped dating her the next day. One thing men hate is for a woman to sit around doing nothing with her time. Be productive, start a daycare, read books to seniors, go back to school, be a volunteer, or just do something to show us that you are interested in anything other than Maury Povich. And, please don't audition for the show. The deal will definitely be broken faster than you can say "You are the baby..."