The ABC's of Productive and Positive Potty Training

When it comes time for your child to potty train, it can be difficult to know where to start. The first place you can start is with your toddler. Explain to your child that having to go potty is part of life. Everyone goes potty. Even all the animals go potty.

Next, you need to tell them about the potty itself. Let your child know the toilet is where all people go potty. Make sure they understand that's where all the big boys and girls go potty. Explain to them how the potty works. If they have their own potty, let them look at it and sit on it. You will also want to explain they won't have to wear diapers anymore, when they learn to go potty. Tell them they'll be wearing big boy or big girl pants when they learn to use the potty.

Other tools you can use to help your toddler use the potty are books, videos, or DVDs. These are great ways for your toddler to be exposed to potty training. Often, they feature loveable characters learning to go potty. Your toddler will learn through imitation. Make sure that family or any other care givers are aware of your potty training efforts. It's important to have consistency when it comes to potty training.

You can also take your toddler with you to the store to buy new underwear for them. Show them all the different kinds available. Let your toddler pick some out. They will have a bigger stake in their potty training if they chose the underwear they'll get to wear.

It's a good idea to avoid putting certain types of clothing on your toddler, during this time. For example, overalls, pants with excessive buttons, snaps, zips, tight clothing or even oversized shirts should be avoided. You'll have to put any of these types of garments to the side, for now.

Another decision you're going to have to make is what the toddler will wear during potty training. You have the option of using pull up pants, training pants, or regular underwear. Again, consistency is the key. Once you pick one, try not to deviate from it. It will help to cut down confusion for your toddler. It's also a good idea to implement a chart and reward system. For example, when they go potty in the toilet, they get to put a sticker on the chart for that day. You can use whatever reward system you deem appropriate. It's important to reward them regularly when they do a good job. Don't be lax on the rewards.

You'll have to also plan for potty issues when you and your toddler are out in public. Always know where the nearest potty is. If your child is in daycare, it is important you let them know you are trying to potty train your child. Make sure they understand you will need their help, for consistency's sake. It's more than likely, they'll be able to assist you with this task; as other children in their care have been in this situation before, and they have others who currently are too.

Every time your toddler uses the potty successfully, you should give them heaps of praise. It's also very important to not be angry or upset over accidents. You can actually reverse any positive progress you've made. You need to stay patient and calm when there is an accident. Be empathetic, and let them know it will take them some time to learn to use the potty. Praise them every time they make an attempt. Your keys to success with potty training will be consistency, encouragement, and praise.