The Adventure of Love

Love is an adventure much like a quest that we fall into. The riches that we may gain as we peek unto the prospect's are what sets off a feeling of new love. The adventure is a long one but the riches of love are worth it in your life when you need it most.

From the very beginning you need to know how to keep a truly miraculous bonding to stay strong and in sync. You and your loved one will fall in love first.

We all have different ways of falling in love. Some of those swear it was love at first sight. Yet others build friendships and over time start to see their deep bond set on fire.

There is nothing like finding that special someone who you share a bond with, whom when you look into their eyes you see a deep connection and feelings so strong that they could burst inside of you. Never would you be able to explain through words feelings like these.

But what happens after the initial love sets in for both of you? Some say that things get rough and others say it's the beginning of an adventure tale. We start needing to face all the serious aspects of our relationships. How can we keep the glue strong?

What about Religion? Politics? Our Parents? Our Money? Even our living styles?
Sure it's correct that both may be in deep love but these realities come knocking on a fresh, even an older relationship, like a devil.

In the case of problems arising from differences between you two, you first need to find out how much you mean to each other. Is he/she as mad about you as you are about him/her?

If you feel this connection is deep enough to push forward into the adventure of your life, love. Then there are certain things every relationship must have. These may seem like things you should already know, but some forget the most crucial. Keep your loving relationship strong and long.

What you need in your adventure of love:

#1 Love
#2 Mutual respect
#3 Trust and Understanding
#4 Talking. Talking is ever so important. Know what's on each other's minds and work it through.
#5 Compromise
#6 Room to breathe when needed
#7 Realistic Planning between both of you
#8 NO lies unless they are white lies.
#9 Patience
#10 Continue to love yourself, for without that you cannot love another fully

Now with the quests in both of your lives you will encounter, you know what to use. When you disagree, take a breather. Then come back and fully talk things out, compromise so both of you will be happy.

Remember that if both of you try all of these techniques and still nothing works after a long period of time that sometimes you are destined to find someone else, and life is a long journey which leads us to adventure after adventure.

If you are ever being abused then don't stay or try to keep the relationship together. Every human deserves better than that. Yes, even emotional abuse is abuse. Find a person who can respect you, love you and treat you right.

In times of any other bumps in the long adventure of love, trust your heart, trust your partner and trust yourself. The adventure is long and contains many bumps, but the happiness you will share, that happiness that will fill you aglow will be worth it.

Good luck in your love and your life and never forget these key rules for staying happy with your loved one.