The Allure of Women

Ahhh, women. For a man, there is nothing more beautiful than a woman. (perhaps even a car) So what is it that attracts us to them so? Well, let's start with the obvious reasons. They have hips, chest and longer hair than men. Hormones drive us towards woman when we see one that we like. It is not that easy though, to get close to them. Have you ever noticed how hard it is to get a quality woman these days?

I'm going to start off with physical defense. Defense?! I know, it's not a sport, but there is a type of defense involved. Women need it from all the perverts, loonies, and psychos out there. When a man finally does get close to a woman he likes- that's just the beginning of his trial. You have to get past the approval stage. This is what a man typically goes through: The woman's eyes may look dreamy, but beware- eyes can hide the truth. They can drag you close to them, or give you a scornful look. However, to get past this, look at her body language. Is she relaxed? Does she looked tensed up? Is she playing with her hair? This could be a sign that she likes you, or is nervous.

Now, when you are talking to a woman, how does she respond? Look closely at her lips. Do her words come out forcefully? Does she smile easily? A lot? These are clues you have to be on the watch for, because any woman worth pursuing will take time. They are not likely to fall into your lap. When a woman is talking to you, does she use her normal voice, or is it that voice that they use to make you melt where you stand? Any man that has been paying attention should know the voice that I mention.

So, if you got past the physical defense and can talk to her, here comes another aspect from this beautiful creation: emotions. Women and emotions are tied closely together, remember that. Rarely does one go somewhere without the other. I'm not saying that it's a bad thing. It's just that women communicate more with their feelings. To really understand a particular woman, you have to take into consideration her emotions. Ask her how she is feeling. Ask how was her day. Ask if she is tired. The point is, whatever you do with her, make sure she is comfortable as possible. Why? (Need you ask?) You have to be a caring person, because physiologically, we are not the same. If you tend to her needs and genuinely care for her, it will speak volumes about you.

After all of this, you might be thinking, bah! It's too much to deal with. Anything that is worth the time to invest it, will net equal rewards. And who is to say that it's not worth it? When a woman likes you, you feel great. But that's not all. (I wrote this whole article just so I can get to this part.)

You get to be beside a woman. Not just her though. Her hair. When you wake up in the morning, her hair is right there beside you, soft and smelling great. Her eyes. The way they sparkle! (I must confess, that is my weak spot.) The bat of the eyes speak only to you. Her legs. How can you not fall for them? Her chest. ( I better not comment, someone is bound to get upset.) Her lips. This is one of the first things that you touch, and you get acquainted with them quickly. Her hips. Men notice it quickly. They are also great for dancing with. If a woman is conscious about her hips, try placing your hands on them. (only if she can trust you) This can take off the tension she might be feeling about that particular part of her body. Her emotions. This is can be a tricky one. If you play your cards right, she will be devoted to you. You even get to talk to her about your personal stuff, and this also helps you get in touch with your own emotions. If you understand a woman's emotions, you are more likely to make her happier.

Really then, when you think about it, women are more important than men. Babies aren't born through men. They are born through women. But more than that though, they help stabilize men. This way, we don't do things instantly, or rashly. Sigh, what can I say though. I love women. There may be ups and downs, good and bad times, but with a woman by your side, things are easier to get through.