The Art of Seduction

Many times you see guys that just seem to "get lucky" every time they approach women. The truth is that luck is not the factor here. These guys, whether they are aware of it or not, know how to trigger sexual attraction in women within a few minutes of meeting them. The "naturals" seem to know this secret and act on it every day, but they do it unconsciously so most of the time they don't pass on their secrets because even they don't know why women like them.

If you know what exactly triggers attraction in women, you can have any girl you want without efforts or especial techniques. It is smart to realize the importance of first impressions and the effect they have in both long and short terms. You must act fast and decisive if you want to get a good first impression, because if you lose those first seconds, then the girl you are interested in will place you in the "creepy" category, and once you're there, there's no way out.

Look your best on your dates. A good selection in your clothes, a nice haircut, a shaved or trimmed beard or mustache, and a good corporal hygiene will prevent the women from disqualifying you at least in those aspects right away. Also try to be cool and relaxed, but don't fake your personality because women can see right through it and you'll look lame.

Smiling is important too. A nice smile is a sign that you are enjoying the moment, and positive feelings are contagious; if you are perceived as fun and enjoying the moment, the women you date will be more likely to feel this way too.

Your body language is another tool you can use to make a great first impression. Did you know that most women can disqualify men even before they open their mouth? This is because women are essentially good at reading your body. Take up more space, stand straight, and make sure your movements are slow, deliberate and expressive. Women love this kind of expression and it will make you get girls more easily.

Be unique and interesting in a positive way. Don't do what everyone else is doing. Don't pretend to be gangsta just because gangstas look cool in MTV. Also avoid cheesy pick up lines that everyone uses such as the typical: "can I buy you a drink?" It sucks! Women are tired of it and will only respond if you are extremely good looking or they already like you. Instead be funny, but not dorky; make fun of her in a friendly way, or approach in a weird way, everything is better than the can I buy you a drink line.