The Art of Seduction: Internal Thinking

The art of picking up women is not rocket science, and it is not impossible. Anyone, whether young or old, can learn how to approach women, and how to be successful with dating. The average man has one thing on their mind, sex. With a few changes, any man can fulfill their sexual fantasies with an unlimited amount of gorgeous women, whenever and wherever the mood strikes.

The first, and the most crucial, step in achieving this goal is to change the way that you think internally. A woman will not be attracted to you if you are shy, non-dominant, and weak willed. In other words, it is time to stop being a wimp and it is time to step up and be the man that you were meant to be. This begins by changing the way that you think about yourself, and of how you think about women. You must be happy with yourself, and your life, and not rely on outside circumstances to affect how you think or act. You must realize that you are the catch, and that the women in your life are strictly there for pleasure and companionship. Do not put women on a pedestal, and do not leave decisions up to the woman. Be the man. Make sure that you make the decisions, and do not stray from your plans if the woman thinks that she has a better idea.

Never take a woman too seriously, otherwise you will be a weak-willed man that can be easily controlled. If a woman rejects you, it is time to celebrate because it means that you went for it, and that you are one step closer to the woman that is into you. Do not let fear of rejection stop you from approaching and pursuing women. If you see a woman that you want to talk to, no matter where it is, then do it. Do not hesitant, and do not think about. Women can sense hesitation, and they are amazing at picking up thought out openers and lines. Be natural. Talk about whatever comes to mind that relates to the specific situation. Of course, there are certain topics that are great and some that are deal breakers, but I will get into that at a later date. Just keep in mind that the more women you talk to, the easier it gets. Chatting up women is not a talent that most men are born with, and it takes patience, practice, and the willingness to accept rejection, in order to get good at it. After all, as in everything in life, practice makes perfect.

The final aspect of changing your internal views is to make your own reality. The reality within the world around you is not set in stone, therefore visualize how you want things to be, and make them so. If you are tired of being shy, as I once was, then tell yourself over and over during the day that you are outgoing. Repeat it over and over, day after day, keep your mind open and believe what you are telling yourself, and before long you will be outgoing without even thinking about it.

Having the ability to pick up women is not complicated, and anyone can do it. It is a skill that can be learned, with a little time, patience, and lots of practice. Becoming successful with women starts with accepting yourself and your life, relying on yourself to make things happen rather than sitting back and hoping for the best, and taking the first step towards being an alpha male. So step up, be the man, and go for it.