The Art of Seduction in the Right Hands

There are a great variety of men in this world. But, I can generalize about three of them in terms of love and romance. The first is just about every man's envy and every woman's dream. He knows what he wants. He gets what he wants. And he appreciates her.

The other two are at two opposite extremes. One of them gets the girl every man dreams about and he has no idea how to treat her. In fact, he doesn't treat her right at all and nearly everyone hates him for it.

The final guy is the guy who deserves love and romance. He would know how to treat a woman. In fact, he does roll-play in his mind all day long. He is attentive and caring and the ladies notice these qualities right off the bat. They just aren't interested.

He is not interesting to them because he doesn't know how to play The Game. In comes Mystery, the World's Greatest Pickup Artist as billed by such magazines as Elle and Saturday Night. The star of VH-1's hit show The Pickup Artist, Mystery teaches awkward outcasts how to open, interest, and close rather attractive ladies. Obviously The Game is a reference to the novel written by Neil Strauss, also known as Style in the infamous Seduction Community.

There is negative criticism about the Seduction Community and Mystery's teachings of the Venusian Arts, but I just don't think this movement is being viewed quite appropriately by those who want to criticize it. Looking at all the factors involved, it's a rather innocent movement that is both sharing and caring. Mystery is sharing with men who need it most the Venusian Art women crave.

The Source

Mystery himself is a self-proclaimed late bloomer who in his younger days was quite awkward with the females. In fact, everyone Mystery has tutored has had similar difficulties with the ladies. Mystery's teachings of the Venusian Arts are quite phenomenal though because they come out of frustration. He approached various women over the years until he developed a method that works. That's a scientific approach.

Mystery is a magician by trade. His seductive techniques help him perform quite successfully on stage as well. The one thing people want in this world is to be attractive. Mystery teaches that you simply present yourself, confident about who you are and happy that you are that way. You instantly become more attractive to everyone around you.

There are certain things that you can control about your appearance. Good hygiene and grooming are important. Dress to kill, like you want to stand out from everyone else. These things are very important. But, not as important as the inner beauty you portray when you show others that you are comfortable with yourself. Now, that's a lesson everyone should learn.

The Men

Style, Matador, and J Dog were all men of adverse backgrounds. Matador and J Dog are co-stars on Mystery's The Pickup Artist on VH-1. In fact, I would venture to say that nearly everyone in the Seduction Community had trouble meeting quality women until they started to study the Venusian Arts. That's when they put their lives together and became happier, more fulfilled men.

There are plenty of men roaming the earth who would make a perfect partner for some awesome lady. But, the opportunities pass them by because they don't know how to create quality moments. That's the bad part. Most women are simply more attracted to men who are very interesting. But, what makes a man interesting?

For men who don't know what to do, one of the first things they like to talk about is what they do for a living. "I'm a Computer Programmer," gets about five seconds of WOW power and then there's nothing there. "I'm a Rocket Scientist" gets a little attention too and then it's all over. While you might think that a lady would be looking for a responsible man who makes a good living, subconsciously she is looking for a man who can make her feel butterflies in the pit of her stomach.

A guy who does not deserve her will come swooping in and have her attention in about five seconds, then she leaves with him because he had game. The guy who deserves her attention is left standing there with a stupid look on his face and that age old question, "What was wrong with me?"

The answer to that question is a resounding, "Nothing!" That's where Mystery brings in the balance and gives all these socially inept men a little leverage. He shows them how to have game and to get the women of their dreams. So far, only men on Harleys, football jocks or rockstars got the women. Mystery is making rockstars out of laboratory managers who never touched a football, a guitar or a Harley.

The Women

It is indeed a well-known fact that women love seduction. They crave the romance and the feeling they get when they are being pursued, especially when it is with the right man. But, they often fall for the wrong man.

They fall for a man who is interesting and seductive at first, but who leaves in the middle of the night or makes awkward excuses first thing in the morning. Get the phone number. Give a quick kiss on the cheek. And leave her to her own emotions feeling like she has been used. And she has. He never calls. So, she eats ice cream in her pajamas while watching sappy old love stories.

It is the very Mystery who is arming the right man with those same seductive techniques. Only in the morning, there is a caring and sensitive man still lying beside her. He may even turn some music on and go for a little morning romance. He might have a good idea for something they could do that day.

Whether a long term relationship is in the making or its just two people spending some romantic moments together, at least she has been treated like a lady and she is equally satisfied with her decisions. She hasn't been used. She has enjoyed a pleasurable moment with a quality man who has no intentions of lowering her self-esteem. He has merely raised the bar and asked her to meet him at his level.

No one loses in the Venusian Arts. She is satisfied. He is fulfilled. The world is a more pleasurable place. If you choose to participate, treat the art with respect and honor each other. If you choose to sit on the sidelines and watch as this movement goes forward, then watch with a smile on your heart. Because, it is good for all who are involved.