The Bachelorette Deanna Pappas: Bad Rap for Dee

Hannah
I absolutely had to write this article. I have never seen so many women mesmerized by a man since Svengali. On top of that, make Deanna look like Medusa. Let's try and be grown ups, put away the fantasy romance novels, and really look at Saint Jason.

First of all Hello, if he adored his son so much why did he leave him for so many weeks, when he could have found a nice woman in his own neighborh0od without leaving his son? Most people find mates without going on The Bachelor, or The Bachelorette. Number two, who the heck decided it's Sooo wonderful when a single father raises his child. My God, millions of women have been doing it forever, and they don't get any medals. Third, did you ever stop to think, that maybe, just maybe, Jason's ex-wife had a good reason for leaving him? Of course not he's Saint Jason. Last but certainly not least, was the limo ride home, after he was jilted. I mean really, he spent most of the time analyzing why "He" wasn't the one chosen, and could just barely muster toward the end to moisten his eyes with tears. Excuse me, that wasn't the scenario of a broken hearted man. Jesse got more upset about possibly losing Deanna before the ceremony, than Jason did when he actually lost her. It was all about him. I think he was arrogant and conceited, and truly believed because Jesse was the so called "oddball", she couldn't possibly choose him. He even admitted he really thought it was him. I just can't believe so many women were so blind.

As far as Deanna goes, I have never seen so many petty, jealous, women in my life. Deanna carried herself with grace, empathy, and compassion throughout the whole show. It definitely showed that it was very difficult for her to hurt anyone. Let's not forget she signed a contract and could not just say I pick Jesse and the heck with the show. They could have sued her for millions, never mind ruining her reputation. So, when you so called ladies start dumping on Deanna perhaps you should remember to ALWAYS walk a mile in someone's moccasins before judging them. I think she did a great job with a VERY difficult situation.

*Congratulations Deanna and Jesse, you have a bond and connection that will carry you through the tough times. Anyone who knows what a soul mate is all about can't help but see that you have both found yours!

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I am a former child & family counselor, and now retired. I am proud to be a U.S Air Force Vietnam Era Veteran. I enjoy writing articles on Relationships, Dating, Marriage, Parenting and much more! I hope you...  View profile

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  • Rachel Heller8/26/2008

    I agree with some points here but I disagree with others. Good article

  • Christine Bude8/8/2008

    I agree as well. You bring up some good points.

  • Hannah7/9/2008

    Charlie K: As always you give an honest and fair evaluation of the situation.

  • Charlie K7/9/2008

    I agree. DeAnna is a lovely girl and she handled herself well. Only she knows what is in her heart. I think more women were surprised than angry though. I certainly wasn't angry. I just want what is best for all three of them.

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