The Battle of the Sexes: How Each Sex Views Relationships

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Men are from Mars and women are from Venus. We all have heard this saying. In many ways, it is true. Men value and look for different things in women then what women look for in men. Once everybody understands each other, the saying will read differently.

Men are very predictable and practical when it comes to relationships. A man doesn't want to feel like he has given up too much of himself to be in a relationship. You see men all the time still allotting time for their male friends because that makes them comfortable. Men also don't like a lot of different emotions. We like emotion, just not to be on emotional rollercoaster. The ups and downs are too much for us. When people get emotional, they tend to make bad decisions in the moment and it usu. turns out to be bad.

Men also like set routines with a little variety now and then. Your mate asking you to take out the garbage during the game is a bad timing. We like our separate modes to be separate. When it's time to clean, we clean. When it's time to chill, we chill. Men are also all about actions. We believe that what we do is what we mean. The reason we are with our partner is because we love them and want to be with them. Women though see things differently.

Women are for the most part predictable but sometimes they do things differently then men. Women can see a man and know he is not that cute or tall, but work with him to achieve a middle ground. Women like spending a lot more time with their partners and will occasionally let him tag along with her friends. Women don't like a lot of different actions. Sometimes men do things that make no sense and women find that a turn-off.

It makes them feel uncomfortable when men do unsensible things. They don't like partner with unpredictable actions. Women also like routines with a little bit of variety. Women are usu. all about the feelings so as a partner, you must take whatever she says into consideration and make her feel comfortable. If you are going to have a good relationship, you have to appeal to all of her senses and create a home like environment between you and her.

I think once men and women actually take the time to understand each other more than relationships will go to another level. Men and women are different in their thinking but only in the understanding of each other. We both are emotional though we show it differently. We are both passionate and capable of loving each other. We just had to remember that in a relationship, there are two people and both of their feelings and opinions are valid.

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