The Best Advice I Ever Got: If You Want to Write, Write

The Best Advice I Ever Got Came from My Husband

Kenzy England
The best advice I ever got was from my husband when he told me there was nothing standing in my way and if I wanted to write, write. "I support you in whatever you want to do, and if it's something you really enjoy doing you should do it."

This may not sound like a lot, but for someone who has always struggled with what her role is in the world, it meant a lot to me knowing that he would support me in what would become a freelance writing career full of highs and lows. This is what I'm meant to do and I learn something new every day.

Associated Content on Good Morning America:

I was sitting on my couch one morning - drinking coffee and watching Good Morning America - when they had a segment with Tori Johnson come on about work-at-home opportunities. One of those sites mentioned just happened to be Associated Content. It piqued my interest enough that I went to my desk and pulled the site up on my computer. I took a little tour through the site, looked up outside information on Associated Content, and eventually signed up.

I didn't write the first couple of months after I signed up, though. I wasn't sure how or where to start. I spent a lot of time reading other Contributors articles on SEO - this made my head spin - and reading forum posts, learning from others through questions. I finally got up the nerve to ask my own question and from there, I was off.

Still uncomfortable (as evidenced by my earlier work here), I continued reading what others were writing. Everything from SEO to how to write a good title and everything in between. Eventually, I started coming out of the hole I had been living in and decided to just go for it.

The page views were low and lousy for much of the first year I wrote for Associated Content as I struggled to find my niche. I realized that I most liked to write about movies, music, television, and, on occasion, celebrities. I decided to try my hand at writing to the A & E category and was overwhelmed by the positive response my articles were getting.

Since that time, the bulk of what I write has to do with entertainment and I look forward to writing about my favorite television shows, movies, and music.

I'm glad I listened to my husbands advice about doing what I love to do. I'm lucky that I have a husband who is supportive and wants me to achieve my goals as a writer.

Next stop: Writing my novel and getting it published has been a long-time dream of mine. For as long as I can remember, I've wanted to write and publish. Different genres have come to mind, and I've actually got a couple different things rolling around in my head right now. It would be amazing to actually get these things down on paper and see my characters come to life, which is why I will be participating in NaNoWriMo 2010. This year, I'm ready for it!

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Published by Kenzy England - Featured Contributor in Arts & Entertainment

I'm a full-time freelance writer, A&E Featured Contributor, and recipient of the Yahoo! Contributor Network's 2010 Top 1000 award. I enjoy writing about my favorite celebrities, music, and television shows....  View profile

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  • Nicolette Stevens6/5/2010

    This is a good article, I enjoyed reading it. Good luck with your book. I imagine you're thinking about traditional publishing, though with the fan base you have here you might find it to help self-promote and market self published material. I used Lulu for a project and had some real luck with that. :-)

  • Marie Anne St. Jean5/26/2010

    And good advice it was - you're reaching for the stars!

  • Victoria Lucas5/11/2010

    I agree -- your husband gave you some very good advice. :)

  • Radell Hunter5/6/2010

    Great advice. He's definitely a keeper. lol By the way, I added a link to your article in my latest one. I hope you don't mind. I thought others could benefit from reading it too.

  • Melanie Patrick5/6/2010

    I really enjoyed reading this. It is awesome to hear how supportive your husband has been of your writing...you are excellent at it! As a newbie it's interesting to read how someone as successful on the site as you are came on almost the same way I did...reading a lot of outside info and researching seemingly forever before finally jumping in!

  • T. Hillukka5/5/2010

    And good advice it is :)

  • Cassandra James4/30/2010

    Good for you and good for your hubby :)

  • S Gardner4/29/2010

    Very nice article, Kenzy. What a sweet, supportive hubby! I appreciated your transparency when you talked about being unsure of your place in the world. Other than being a very determined mom, I'm struggling with that right now, too. So many circumstances out of my control - And yet writing has appeared for me again. I hope I am able to keep it in focus and grow better and better in it - learning SEO, etc., as you described you have. Thanks for sharing about your journey!

  • Melody Jones4/27/2010

    Can't wait to read the book!!

  • Peter Flom4/26/2010

    Very good article! I like to write, too.

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