The Best Gift: Sex

The more years of marriage that pass the harder it is to find a unique gift for my wife. I've gotten her jewelry, clothes, gift certificates and flowers to name just a few. The best gift I ever got her, though was on our most recent anniversary. The gift is unique, thoughtful, fun, and keeps on giving month after month. What is this wonderful gift you ask? SEX!

No, I didn't make up some cheesy certificate that says "this certificate good for one love session." Instead I started surfing the net looking for books on sensual massage. I found tons of interesting titles and settled on one called simply, "Sensual Massage." I chose it because it gives a step-by-step method of massage.

Like most men, I've given plenty of massages but I never really knew what I was doing. I'd rub up and down with no real plan other than trying to loosen stiff or sore muscles. This book is helpful because it lays out exactly what to do and when to do it. The book only talks about sensual massage, massage that enhances and leads to great sex. Sensual massage is not about sore muscles as much as it's about mood setting and touching.

I received the book about 2 weeks before our anniversary and I studied it. I memorized the recommended methodology. I went over it again and again until I knew I could do it without referring back to the book during the massage. I couldn't wait to give my wife the sensual massage. I knew she'd go crazy for it, but I wanted to keep my newfound sexual knowledge secret until the time was right...our anniversary night.

My next step was to buy scented rubbing oil. I had no idea there are such an assortment of massage oils. I knew I was over my head so I asked the saleslady for help. She directed me towards an oil that's known for its sexual and passionate aromatic tendencies. She assured me that with the proper sensual massage, this oil was just the thing to get the romance flowing.

Finally the big day arrived. We went out to dinner returned home, and I had her stay out of the bedroom until called. I dimmed the lights, lit a few candles, and plugged in our tiny water fountain. I put in a mellow acoustical guitar CD and laid towels on our bed. When the mood was just right I called her in.

She was immediately suspicious, but excited. Without getting too explicit, the massage was a complete success. The oil was the perfect scent, the mood was just right and I followed the memorized massage steps without fail.

The constant rubbing and massaging made my hands feel superheated. In fact this was a big part of the success of the massage for my wife. She was amazed at the heat from my hands, which sent her into a dreamy state.

When I completed the sensual massage, she was putty in my hands. Not only was she relaxed and comfortable, she was also ready for some mind-bending sex.

I still give her a sensual massage about once a month. I use the same technique I learned in the sensual massage book, and it always works like a charm. This gift just keeps on giving.