Not every parent is qualified to be an educational teacher, and this is when the choice for home schooling is an often selfish one, and the child's best interest is not first and foremost. There are numerous tools available for parents that choose to home school, but if the parent themselves are void in some or all the curriculum realms, they will be fast tracking their child to a lack of knowledge. Should we not want our children to excel and surpass our own skills and experiences, is that not what we are supposed to strive for, giving our children access to the best education possible? So, if you yourself of void educationally, how can you expect to guide the best education possible for your children?
Some choosing to home school are doing so for religious convictions and want to only expose their children to a religious sensitive curriculum, while some others are paranoid and protective. They fear the big evil world out there will expose their child to common sense reasoning that they want to stifle and protect them from. Its plain paranoia and it can cause a child's development to be delayed on many levels. Again, it all goes back to some parents not being qualified to take on the role of educational teacher. Some parents can be an effective teacher, while some are selfishly choosing to home school when they cannot fulfill the requirements of ensuring that their child will excel academically, and only care that they excel religiously and are sheltered away from all bad in society.
The true case against home schooling should point to whether or not the parent is qualified and able to ensure that the child will excel academically and acquire the knowledge needed to go on to higher education; so, they can eventually become a productive member of society. If the only goals you have are to protect your child from the evil world by shutting them in your home and to instill your personal interpretations of your chosen religion, you may be doing more harm then good to your child.
Children have to learn by experiences, both good and bad. They have to be allowed to make mistakes in life so they can learn the common sense ways of resolving situations. No one wants their child to fall off the positive path of life, but if we shelter them so much, they will never learn the skills they will need when they are adults.
Most effective home schooling parents know this to be true, and have fought local school districts long and hard to have the right to allow their home schooled children to participate in extra-curricular activities; accountability testing that ensures that the child is meeting educational standards, and more. Their home schooling because they feel they can expose their children to a more enriched academic curriculum and do education better then the public schools can. If that is not your home schooling goal, then, you should rethink your choice.
Again, basically it boils down to some parents are not meant to be educational teachers, and their choice to home school is motivated by paranoia and religion. This paranoia and religious motivation can often shelter a child to the point that unrealistic fears manifest in the child and their normal child development can often be delayed and hindered. Also, since not every parent is capable of being a quality academic/educational teacher, they may miss certain signs and symptoms of learning disabilities that may be present in their child. Most learning disabilities that are identified during the early years of education can be worked with and even overcome when properly trained educators work with the child. Parents that choose home school for the wrong reasons and do not have the skills to effectively educate their children are doing more to dumb down their child then they are doing any good for them, and this can be an equivalent to child neglect.
No one is saying that home schooling is not a necessary and viable option, but not every parent is motivated with the right reasons for making this choice, or the actual faculties to carry it out beneficially with their children. Home schooled children need to be exposed to academic excellences as well as to a full and active life style. Most effective home schooling parents know that and are doing a wonderful job at ensuring their child receives a broad and extensive education (not diluted or void) along with extra-curricular activities (sports, club interactions, peer socialization, trips, movies, and more). If you are not including any of the above, you make the case against home schooling an easy case to prove.
Published by Jan Castagnaro
Jan is a mother of 3, with a husband in the Air Force. She has worked in the medical field on and off for over 12 years, and is presently back in school, working on her degree. Recently, Jan has relocated to... View profile
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8 Comments
Post a CommentAnyone who thinks this is a good article should probably not homeschool past 2nd grade, unless they get a lot of outside help.
WOW AMY how mature of you to actually pick out a typo grammar error in my article, yet, you failed to actually read my article and understand that it doesn't condemn the choice to homeschool at all. It condemns the parent that chooses to do so without actually having a committment to educating their child and truly enriching their mind. SO, maybe you should re-read my article and learn how to do some reading comprehension before you pick out a typo grammar error that slipped through--ooops I'm not perfect and neither is AC.
"Their home schooling because they feel they can expose their children to a more enriched academic curriculum and do education better then the public schools can. If that is not your home schooling goal, then, you should rethink your choice."
Note the grammatical error in the first word of the above comment. I am unsure of whether or not I will homeschool, but wish to state that it is not necessary to place 4,5,and 6-year-olds into environments in which they must struggle to survive. I might be over-protective, but I believe children should be allowed to be children, not have to worry about being smaller or larger, whether or not another child likes them, whether or not the teacher likes them, whether or not their shoes are the right style, and on and on and on.
I am a home school mom, and I must say , I agree with you post. I home school to offer my son a better education then the one offered by the school system in my area. School system here is low on CAT test scores. I do teach bible in class but only cause it is required. I do not care to mix religion with education, and I try as much as I can to keep them apart.
I do know my state had a huge issue with parents claiming religion to home school there kids and then giving them a pamphlet to read only as a form of school work. Some were taking them to church and saying "That is my lesson for week". My state finally stepped in and fixed this issue.
Home schooling is a full time job, one some parents are able to do, and some parents shouldn't do.
I haven't seen this "Jesus Camp" either. I can't say I agree with or disagree with what's in it. But if you believe something to be the "Truth" and "worth dying for", integrity would demand that you do whatever it takes to teach that "Truth" to your children. I think that the people you are talking about place their children's spirituality above everything else. The key to keeping a balance is to remember that as Christians, we are called to "be in the world but not be OF it". That requires a well rounded education.
I haven't seen "Jesus Camp", but I have heard awful things about it. The way it sounds, I don't think those parents should be homeschooling, either. I do teach my children Biuble stories and songs, but it is a seperate subject from their other subjects. Howver, that's really no different than what I did when they were in public school, either. I feel that children should be taught their religion, but that they should also be taught core subjects and electives. I would hope that when people do read this article, they read the entire thing and understand you are saying that not everyone is cut out to be a homeschooling family. I didn't take offense and if someone is homeschooling the correct way (providing a solid education) they shouldn't be offended either, I think you did a great job. :-)
Continued from 1st comment: Thanks for stopping in (Mommy2Lots). I figured by now I'd have some parent condemn me and miss the point that I am not against homeschooling, and realize the benefits it does hold when carried out in a way that promotes factual content and not some diluted version, because then they are no better than some school districts.
Excellent article. I homeschool my children, but I do it because of the expanded educational possibilities (being able to take extra classes, hands-on learning, etc). I agree that not every person can handle it. It's a difficult task - one that some parents can handle and others cannot. I have yet to see one who does it wrong, but I'm sure there are some out there who will not dedicate the time and effort it takes.