The Confidence Factor in Attracting Women

Women are attracted to men who have self confidence. Women are attracted to a man's self confidence similarly to how a man is attracted to the female physique. The more confident the man appears the more attractive he becomes. When you show women that you are confident you let them know that you are have what it takes to succeed in this world. On the other hand, if you lack self confidence, you will send women the signal that you are falling through the cracks. Rarely does a man who lacks confidence succeed in life.

Of course there is a difference between real confidence and false confidence. The first kind of confidence comes from a deep inner sense of security. False confidence comes from insecurity. You may notice men who have false confidence. They try to give off the image that they are on top of the world and they give off a cocky attitude. Yet, it is apparent that he is putting on a mask. He does not appear to have real confidence. Every thing in his being is actually shouting out to the world that he lacks self confidence.

Now consider a man who has real self confidence. First off, he has quiet confidence. He is too secure in himself to try to overcompensate in a cocky manner. You can tell that he is secure in himself even before he utters a single word. You can even see it in his eyes. Likewise, women pick up on all these signals as well. The fact is that either men are confident or they aren't. There is no middle ground. Men can't fake self confidence.

The more you know about the world, the more confident you will be in it. Part of knowledge, is self understanding. You can only be confident in what actions you will take when you have a complete understanding of why you are the way you are. Any course of action in improving oneself is built upon the foundation of self knowledge.

To succeed with women you will need to have a greater storehouse of knowledge than your male competition. Imagine for a moment that you and man who is similar to you in looks, intelligence, and career success, are going to go to a singles event one month from now. Now imagine that you read five books on interpersonal communication and your competitor reads nothing. Chances are that when you and your competitor go to the event, you will have stolen the show. You will see hundreds of things that he does not. You will respond to things that he does not. You will achieve success with women that he will not achieve. This is the power of knowledge in the pursuit of success with women. Therefore, it would be highly beneficial for you to acquire as much information as possible about communication, fashion, human mating behavior, and anything else that relates to achieving success with women.

At some point you will reach a level of understanding which will make you comfortable in any situation with women. Once you have acquired a storehouse of knowledge you will automatically exhibit self confidence around women. They will instantly pick up on your inner security, and they will want to get to know you better. You will be more assertive with women because you will be able to more effectively predict their actions.