The Crazy Exes

Many of us are not as lucky as others to find the one they want to be with for their remainder of their lives without being

with those who have not been who they had thought they were. For some of us, we have been with some crazy

people. At first you think that the person you are with is the one you love. Then you learn that that person isn't who you

thought. After a while of being with them they change, things change. Maybe your feelings change towards them,

maybe they type of person you like changes.

When you think you have found that one person you want to be with for the rest of your life you need to think about

options. Think about the what ifs; What if you said no to this person, would they turn into someone differently towards

the answer no? What if you were away for a while without them, would they care or would they cheat? There are so

many questions people do not think about when going into a serious relationship especially those who are young

lovers.

Young lovers do not understand that there are those who are just using them then there are those that their love is

true. It mostly revolves around trust, love, sex, and comfort. Trust is in and needed in all kinds of relationships, love is

what makes the relationships, sex is for when you are in total love with the person and they won't use them just for sex

and leave after they get what they want. Comfort is needed in the relationship also, you need to feel comfort when with

that person and need to be able to be yourself around them.

If you are one who is lucky enough to find that one person you want to be with for the rest of your life and they are

the person that you thought they were from the first time you met then hold on tight to them and never let them go. If

you happen to be one of those who have to go through many chapters in life to find that one that fits who you want

in your life and that feelings will not ever change.