The Dangers of MySpace

From Addictions to Criminals; Knowing when to Log Off

Heather Shockney
"I cannot wait to get home to see if I have any messages on MySpace. Maybe I can check my messages at work. The boss will never know. Hi honey, I'm home, I am just going to check my messages on MySpace. I'll be right back. Wow! It's already 10:00. I cannot believe the time went so fast. Oh well, I'll just stay on a few more minutes".

Does this sound like your evenings? MySpace can easily become an addiction if you allow it. It starts out simple enough. You create a profile on MySpace to keep up with friends from school or work. The next thing you know you are spending all your free time checking your MySpace messages. Before you realize it you are spending several hours a day on MySpace.

MySpace can become an addiction without you even realizing it. It can start to interfere in your relationships. Your significant other may not like that you spend hours a night on MySpace instead of spending quality time with them. They may become jealous of the time you spend, and start to resent you.

MySpace is a world on the internet. You do not know all of the people you chat with on there. They could be serial killers, or rapist looking for their next victim. People can be anyone they want to be on MySpace. They can use photos of other people. They can tell you they live anywhere. People on MySpace can have any job they desire. It becomes a fantasy world to them.

Sometimes people lose track of what is fantasy and what is reality. They can become so hooked on a person; they let their rational thinking run away. Some people start affairs with people they meet on MySpace. It starts innocent enough. A few nightly conversations and messages are exchanged. The next thing you know they are meeting these people for romantic encounters. This is very dangerous. You do not know who you are really going to meet. They could be planning to kidnap you, or kill you.

Let's say you choose to meet this person. What do you really know about them? They could have told you a lot of made up stories. Men will use MySpace as a way of meeting women to have an affair with. They may tell you how miserable their home life is. They are planning on divorcing their wife very soon. They have not had any intimacy with their spouse in months. They just need someone to talk to that understands them. One thing leads to another and you are now the mistress of the relationship. What happens when you find out he never had any intentions of leaving his wife? How will you feel if his wife discovers your affair?

MySpace can cause a lot of problems in your life if you become addicted. It can cause you to lose important relationships, or even your job. You have to be careful when talking with people on MySpace. Pay attention to the information you divulge. You also have to know when MySpace is becoming an addiction. If you are spending several hours a day on there, you could have a problem.

If you stay up all hours of the night to be on MySpace you are addicted. You could be harming yourself physically as well. A person needs sleep to allow their bodies time to recuperate. If you are missing several nights of sleep in a row your health will start to suffer.

While some people may laugh about an addiction to MySpace it can be a very serious problem. Any type of addiction is serious when it starts to interfere in your daily life. You have to know how much MySpace is too much.

Published by Heather Shockney

Heather is the mom to a daughter with Autism, ADHD, ODD, Mood-D/O-NOS,obsessive compulsive tendencies, and sensory issues. We are a cyber-schooling family.She writes for a variety of online venues. If you ha...  View profile

  • MySpace can become an addiction.
  • MySpace is a fantasy world to some.
  • Be careful about the information you give people on MySpace.
People can spend several hours each day on MySpace. They allow it to consume them.

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