The Debate Between Evangelism and Church Ethics

Stealing Lost Sheep

Billy Obenauer
Sheep stealing. Now there's a phrase with a nasty connotation to it, yet it is not uncommon to hear Christians use this phrase. The phrase "sheep stealing" refers to when one church increases its attendance by drawing in members of other churches.

"Sheep stealing" often can become a point of contention between churches. Regardless of the fact that we are all brothers in Christ, "sheep stealing" can sometimes create tension between churches to the point that members of one church are no longer welcome at events hosted by other churches. While we would all like to believe that this is not true, it is an unfortunate and sad reality.

Recently, I heard a pastor speaking with members of his church about evangelism. In this conversation, the pastor declared that it was in no way the church's intentions to steal members from other churches. He referred to the fact that taking part in actions such as "sheep stealing" are against church ethics.

Now, at first, this may sound like a noble statement, but after reflecting on it for a moment, I was reminded of a story that was told to me by the pastor who lead me down the path to salvation. Every Saturday, this pastor's church took a bus full of evangelists out into different neighborhoods and began knocking on doors. One time, a pastor who lived in one of these neighborhoods confronted the evangelists saying that these people all went to his church and asked them to leave the neighborhood. To that, the pastor leading these evangelists replied, "Not a single person that I've spoken with today had ever heard of salvation. I'm not about to let their souls go to hell just because they go to church every Sunday."

Are we letting people go to hell just because we don't want to cross a line that we call "church ethics?" Now, I'm not suggesting that churches fill their pews by recruiting in the parking lots of other churches, but I am asking if we are denying people enlightenment and salvation in order to avoid offending religious leaders. What would Jesus say to that?

We feel that it is our duty to spread the Good News of Jesus Christ to atheists. There are no church ethics that prevent us from ministering to people of Jewish, Hindu or Muslim faith. Why then, would we be reluctant to minister to someone who wants to be a Christian, but just does not know Jesus Christ? If a man has the opportunity to be lead to Jesus Christ, should he be denied that opportunity simply because he is affiliated with a church that is not meeting his spiritual needs? If you would be willing to deny that man the opportunity to be introduced to Jesus Christ, do you need to be introduced yourself?

The fact of the matter is that Christianity is about relationships. It is about our relationship with God. It is about our relationship with Jesus Christ. To a lesser extent, our relationships with the people within our church play a role in our development as Christians as well. Sometimes, two people are not going to be able to connect for a reason that no one can explain. If that is the case between a shepherd and his sheep, would it not be better for that sheep to leave and join a flock where he may better hear God's message? As a shepherd dedicated to spreading the word of God, would you not want that for a member of your flock? If God calls a member of your church to move on to a church where he may better understand the message, do you have the right to call him back? If God calls upon you to reach out to a member of another church who is not receiving His message, do you have the right to deny God?

As we grow in our Christian walk, sometimes change is imperative. After all, growth is change. Sometimes as we grow, we find that we need to become more involved in our church, become more dedicated to our devotions, or take on a new role in evangelizing. Other times, we may find that we need to leave the church we love to go help a church in need. As a pastor, what could make you more happy than to see a member of your church do that?

We all know that pastors have a lot of pressure on them to maintain their church membership and inspire growth. Not only does that pressure come from the higher ranking officials in their churches, but they place a lot of that pressure on themselves. Intentional or not, membership statistics get evaluated as do offering revenues and when a member leaves a church, it hurts both of these statistics. This is where we need to take a step back. If a member leaves a church, to go to another church where he may have the opportunity to grow in his Christian walk, we need to let him go with a smile on our face. When it comes to church attendance, only one thing should matter: how many people AROUND THE WORLD are being reached with the Good News of Jesus Christ?

When Jesus spoke about the dangers of religious leaders, was he only speaking about the leaders of His time, or was he speaking about the leaders of today as well? It is time for "church ethics" to take a backseat to salvation.

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  • Peter B2/12/2009

    ought to know. Don't you feel like converting others now?!"

    I've yet to really speak with anyone who has a remotely down to earth solution for this ethical dilemma besides "God makes this wrong right for me."

    Yes, it cut me off... How unfortunate.

  • Peter B2/12/2009

    What I really don't understand is, the ethics behind the fact that hell is the primary reason we convert people in the first place. Whether its openly admitted or not we wouldn't truly care that much if it wasn't for that.

    If you ask me, I'm the type who would rather have never existed than know people are damned for all eternity if they don't accept Jesus as their savior. I know some churches have some different views on this but there can only be one truth...

    Hell, is in an of itself a sin to me because of what the "knowledge" of it does to us, the church, and anyone we harass to convert. Sure, the good church wont bring up hell on the first day... But its going to come up sometime and its not going to be any different in the end.

    "Hey, guess what? Now that you're a believer I'll let you in on something: Anyone who doesn't believe gets sent to hell for all eternity. A place of eternal separation from god and eternal suffering and torment! Fire and brimstone! Thought you oug

  • Marianne (Mia) Cadwell1/14/2009

    Great article! Most church goers today have missed it. It has become all about them instead of about evangelising their community. The spirit of religion and tradition must bow it's knee so that the gospel of Jesus Christ can be preached.

    I think it comes down to the fact that what will be more important on the day that we stand before Jesus. Will he ask us how many members we had in our church or will he be more interested in how many souls were saved.

    It's unfortunate but there are people who are sitting in the pews who are not saved, because the gospel has become to offensive. There is a Great Awakening that is coming to this land and God is about to turn the tables of the money changers and watch their idols fall.

  • Zachary Fruhling10/1/2008

    Members of all churches are part of the church universal; the body of Christ.

  • Adam Michael Luebke7/29/2008

    I think it is a ridiculous notion that people do not think for themselves. It would be impossible for any one church or sect to steal another church's members if humans could think on their own and developed a normal level of brain power. Sheep are slaves; loyal and stupid, easily lead to the slaughter.

  • Sylvia Cochran6/17/2008

    This is an excellent article and it showcases the two most common fallacies currently befalling Christianity: the failure to see that denominationalism is actually opposed by God and the failure to see members of a congregation as something other than numbers and percentages and thus failing to meet their basic spiritual needs. When pastors quit worrying about who is stealing their sheep and instead focus on themselves and their leadership team to see where the breakdown takes place that prevents members to be served to such an extent that they have to go elsewhere, these pastors no longer have to worry about even one sheep straying. Excellent article!

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