The Dos & Don'ts of Dating

Have you ever gone on a date and waited for a call that would never come? If you follow these dos and don'ts, your date will not only go more smoothly, but you'll be more likely get that much anticipated phone call:

Do: Wear a bit of perfume
If you're a woman, wear just a little perfume in the right places to have your date say "You smell nice." And for a man, a bit of cologne. (It isn't a good idea for the scent to be too overpowering, though. You don't want him or her to have a sneezing fit.)

Do: Relax
When going on a date, make sure you are not thinking about an important event such as an upcoming meeting, or an emergency. The other person will sense your mind isn't totally on the occasion, and your conversation will lack sparkle.

Do: Find out what you'll be doing
If you are going to a museum or wine tasting, for instance, find out some information at the library beforehand, so you won't seem like a complete novice about the topic. You will be able to intelligently discuss things.

Don't: Be boring
It is better not to say anything then to ramble on and have your date look at you with a glazed-over look in his or her eyes. Don't forget to ask your date questions, as well that he/she will be interested in.

Don't: Be late
If you have a dinner date to meet at a restaurant, don't show up half an hour late with a flimsy excuse. Sometimes, reservations can be lost and you will have to go somewhere else. Have the courtesy of being on time. A good rule is to treat the other person as you would want to be treated.

Don't: Talk about ex's
This is a definite no-no and you won't get asked out again. No one wants to hear about how wonderful or rotten your ex was. Focus on your date and their interests instead and you will have a happy time.

Don't: Be fidgety
Even if you are nervous, act casual and don't overly use your hands when talking. Simply treat your date as if you are with a good friend. You won't feel on edge the entire time. Make it a fun thing. You will feel much better.

If you follow the above tips, you will most likely get that second date you have been hoping for.