The First Day of Kindergarten: Survival Tips for Parents

The first day of kindergarten is an exciting time not only for the child but the parents as well. It marks a huge milestone in the child's life and it can bring a myriad of feelings and emotions. While many parents feel pride as they see their child start school they may also feel sadness, apprehension and worry how their little one will do. Here is some tips for helping parents cope on the first day of kindergarten.

Before your child starts school, take a day where you do something special with them to prepare. This can mean packing their school supplies together, helping them pick out a special outfit for the first day to just having a day that is all about them. If your child has been in daycare or preschool they will likely be more excited than nervous about starting kindergarten. However, if you have chosen to keep your child at home, they may not know what to expect. Taking them to visit the school is a good way to help prepare them for for their big day. Another option reading them a special story about the first day of school. Remain optimistic about school, mentioning all the great things they will experience and all the exciting experiences they will have. This will help to calm their nerves.

As the big day dawns parents should take lots of pictures to have as keepsakes. Make sure and keep the mood light and excited. If parents show they are nervous or apprehensive for their child, their child is going to pick up on these emotions and will display them themselves. Most kindergartens encourage parents to bring their children into the classroom on the first day. Parents should show their child all the neat things in the classroom and help them get settled. While it may be difficult, parents should be careful to remain calm and happy so their child will as well.

When it comes time for parents to leave, there may be some tears on both sides. This is completely normal and while it is difficult, parents should remember their child's teacher has likely dealt with these situations before and will know what to do to get their to calm down and get used to the every day routine of school. If parents can help it, they should make their goodbyes, quick and to the point. Be sure to give the child a hug and smile and reassure them that you will be back to get them soon.

Walking away can be the hardest part, especially if a child is crying and the parent has never dealt with this before. While it may seem difficult, parents should remember that this will pass and soon their child will be making new friends and starting on their way to getting an education and making new memories for themselves.