The First Time Experiences Are The Best - Make Sure To Enjoy Them

When there is true love between two people in a committed relationship, it makes every experience together special in a soul stirring sort of way. I mean the feeling you can only get when you know! You know! The person you are with has your best interest in hand and the love and respect you share for one another is emanated where ever you go, apart and especially when you are together. If you ever had one of these relationships you know what I'm speaking of. When no matter where you are people look at the both of you and you can just feel, that they know you are in love.

This is what makes all of your first time experiences so special. Even if you have experienced things before you got together. When you experience it with that special person. You see more, feel a different way about things, it is especially good when your partner has that experience for their first time and if it was a pleasant one. To know that you played a major part in it.

I recall being in a relationship with a woman seven years my senior. Although she was older, she hadn't really experienced much. Like ride the "L" Downtown, to catch a movie and dinner. Something I did on a regular. But to know it was her first time and to see her excitement and feel the joy coming from her made the experience for me enjoyable in a unexplainable way. There was also the first time she came over to my apartment. I lived three blocks from the lake. So when she arrived, I had dinner slow cooking in the oven and asked her if she would like to go for an evening stroll on the beach. We did and during our walk we sat on a bench. But she had on work clothes. So to keep them from getting dirty, I offered my lap to her. But she was kind of hesitant, she felt as though people would be watching us but she sat on my lap anyway and just as she did an older couple walked passed gave us a look and a smile as to say "look at them, they in love". I felt tension leave her body. And yes this is the time we shared our first kiss. On the walk back to my place, the company as well as the conversation was so comfortable. That she had ask the question. "Why haven't w been doing this?" I was thinking to myself . "This is our first date." But she realized her error and apologized saying. "I'm just so comfortable with you, it feels like we been knowing each other for a while." Needless to say! The rest of the night lasted two years.

Not all first time experiences will be pleasant. But your reaction to any circumstance will have a profound effect on the future outcome of each. Whether it be in a serious relationship, your children, friends or just people you meet everyday. Let it be that as far as you are concerned, make the first time rememorable and enjoyable. So when the times arise when you may be at odds with you significant other, disappointed in your children of just peeved with the world. think back on the first time you and that person shared something really special, when they first made you proud or how a perfect stranger went out of their way or did something for you that no one else would. I guarantee it will lighten your spirits.