The Five Don'ts Of A Relationship

The reasons couples break up usually are... no particular reason at all, or 'we've grown apart', at least that's what most males would say. The fact is there is always a reason for break ups, it's just that men by nature like to come up with an excuse for it, but the reasons are usually revealed when he's having a heart to heart with his mates...if that ever happens. So here are five don'ts that will help the ladies to avoid break ups.

1) Don't change the person you're with. All too often you'll hear this when men complains to their mates that she "forbids me to smoke if I wanted to be with her". Replace smoking with any other old habits of his. Just remember you can say what you like about what you don't like him doing, but at the end of the day, it's still his choice, you cannot change who he is. If he loves you, he'll make the effort to compromise, but again, that's his choice.

2) Don't be too moody. There are days when ladies tend to have huge mood swings, we all know that, but men can't fully understand it, and some girls abuse it and use it as an excuse for every nit picking opportunity. So if you know you're going to be in a sour mood, avoid seeing each other for a few days, it'll do both of you some good.

3) Don't make him promise anything. Just accept the fact that men tend not to like promises and commitments. Forcing them to promise to do something will only drive them away.

4) Don't be a magnet. Unless you're still in high school, then bask in the everyday in your face honeymoon period. Otherwise, don't stick to your man like a magnet. He might not have minded that attention in the first phase of your relationship, but after a while he'll start to feel like a prisoner. So give him some space to breath before he bolts back to his carefree days.

5) Don't complain all the time. Nobody likes to hear negative things 24/7. Girls have a tendency to complain incessantly, whether they're in the office or the supermarket or at the restaurant. So restrain from doing that and focus on enjoying the company.

That's all folks. May your relationships be sweet and blissful all the way.