The Importance of Adjusting to Your Partner

I'm no stranger to the whole dating game. I've been on blind dates, internet dates, and straight up dates. I've been to the bars, the clubs, and the after parties. I've walked up to girls and asked for their numbers and I've chickened out on a few occasions. I've been through the whole gambit.

I've realized that a lot of what my past relationships taught me about sex and intimacy has shaped how I have treated my girlfriend up until this point. I've always dealt with certain kinds of females. They were all intelligent and in school pursuing their dreams. Most of them were very sexual and were active in getting their needs met. All of them had vehicles and a good home situation. We were able to talk and have good conversations about life, politics, and music.

But it was talking to a good friend of mine who's a lesbian to open up the female mind and needs even more to me. I didn't know about women needing comfortability so much. I didn't know that women like to have plans all set out and in stone. I didn't know that the world puts so many stereotypes out there about body size and shape that it's hard to not be self-conscience.

So to my fellow men, I offer a few tips to help in bridging the gap between the sexes. First, if you have your own place or you live together, clean up before your woman comes home. If you are a messy guy, this might even be a turn on for her. You will relax her mind. Second, light a good candle. Women love them, they smell good, and it appeals to her sense of smell. Third, make her a nice meal or go out to her favorite restaraunt. If she is comfortable, then she is going to open more about everything. Fourth and last, Compliment and massage. A woman could have a great body and still feel like she is fat. As the man who loves that woman, let her know how fine she is to you. If your woman knows you think she is sexy and you constantly want her, she will show you how sexy she is. Also, women love massages. There is nothing like coming home from a hard day's work and having someone take special attention to your body.

So next time you guys are wonder what to do to make things a little smoother in your relationships, try one or all of my simple tips and finally adjust to your partner.