The Importance of Being a Tease and How to Become One!

My article is not meant to offend any men out there who are having a hard enough time getting what they want. It is simply meant to inform women that they have options!! Being a tease can be fun and exciting, and if you haven't tried it--then you should!!

It is important to be a "tease" because no-one will appreciate something that they did not work for. You need to hold a few things back to get what you want when it comes to men. Its the same premise as the "forbidden fruit" idea. Most men are not seriously attracted to something they can get easily. Have you ever found that you were pursued more when you were in a relationship as opposed to when you were single? Or have you ever lusted over a man that you KNEW you couldn't have? Or even pursued a man that you KNEW was unavailable? Human beings just love a challenge! If you become one, then your value increases.

Today, the word "tease" has such a negative connotation. But here, when I say become a tease, I am not advocating using men. They are human beings also, even though it may not seem like it, and no-one likes to be used. I am talking about how to "tease" a man you are genuinely interested in. Not teasing someone you are after for superficial reasons, like money, or building a reputation.

Before you start teasing men, you have to realise your own self worth. Being a tease requires a higher level of confidence than the average female. You can't just say that you're worth it. You have to HONESTLY believe it. Has another woman ever walked past you and made you wish you were her? YOU have to become that woman that other women want to become! You cannot walk past another woman and want to be her, you should hold your own head high and use what you have.

Of course, there a few obstacles to becoming a successful tease. For instance, when do you stop being a tease and just let him "win"? Or, what if he leaves before you decide to let him "win"? Well as I mentioned before, you have to recognise your own self worth. If you don't see yourself as worth the wait, then he won't either. If he doesn't realise that you are in fact worth it, and he leaves before you're ready, then you don't want him anyway. The key to deciding when the right time is, is to determine when you're ready. There is no valid timetable that applies to every single female. You have to know what you're prepared to do, and when you're prepared to do it.

Take me for example; it might take a man about 4 to 5 obvious tries, or a 2nd meeting/date for me to actually give him a kiss on the lips. Now some men have tried to circumvent my "schedule" by giving me a kiss on the cheek (close to the lips) when they first meet me. Yes, it shows a high level of confidence on the part of the man, but to me it just seems like he wants to make us physically closer before I'm ready. The important part of deciding when to stop being a tease is to realise when you're ready to give him that kiss, or take you relationship to the next level.