The Mathematical Equation for More Catholic Vocations

Children + More Children = Priests. This is my mathematical equation for our shortage of Catholic priests in this millennium.

The decline in priesthood has a direct relation to the growing trends of small-sized families in our midst today. In addition to recent child molestation scandals in the Church, the prevailing teen culture, the lack of publicity in seeking priesthood as a career, it is predicted that religious vocations will be in a steep decline. Would you convince your teenager to be a priest if he is your only son? Would you entertain thoughts of religious life as a career choice for your two kids? This is an unlikely decision for a two-child household. Thus, large families bring in a lot of hope for future religious vocations.

Father Tom Sullivan, in his parish retreat at our Our Lady of Rosary Parish at Augusta Rd, Greenville, SC in October 2007, told the crowd. "Did you ever ask your sons to consider priesthood?" Not everyone has the courage to ask the children this question. Father Sullivan said, "It is ironic but shouldn't we seek first the Kingdom of God for our children". He said that what we need in our world are Moms and Dads raising boys who will consider the religious life.

He mentioned that being one of seven children raised by a single Mom, he learned quickly that there are more valuable things in life than acquiring new stuff or gadgets. It is very interesting to find out from priests around us, what kind of mothers and fathers did they have? Did their parents have a direct influence in their decision to become a priest?

Many priests attribute entering religious life because of the piety of their parents. They even call their parents "Professional Catholics", that is, they take their faith very seriously. Some became priests as a result of their participation in youth groups and social justice and volunteer work. Many grew up spiritual but not Catholic. However, their quest for the Truth drove them in the realm of the Catholic Faith.

"Have you considered priesthood?" This is the question Father Sullivan wants us to ask our children.

It's funny but I ask this question periodically to our children at different times of their childhood. Our 18 year old told me a few years back "Heck no!!!" I asked him again a few months back and he said "maybe". Three months ago, "I think I will be the first wrestler monk". Just a "maybe" adds a glimmer of hope. I recall when he was born and I asked St. Anthony, St. Francis and St. Raphael to be his protectors. I remember telling God, "If it is Your will, use him for your greater glory." God did. This son is passionate about wrestling. Without much prompting, he found comfort in offering his wrestling matches to God. Coaches, athletes and parents watch him win State Finals from being unranked and unknown. Fellow athletes, who first ridiculed him about praying before a match, began to wonder if his religion has something to do with his victories. In his defeat, he found solace in God. In his physical training, he endured the limits of his body and then, he found purpose for it. He is not the most pious child in our household. He is not the most obedient and most responsible son. But, St. Augustine was not either. St. Monica prayed dearly to God for the conversion of his son, and God answered her prayers. St. Augustine is known to be one of the greatest philosopher of all times.

For our 7 sons and 2 daughters, the decision to be a priest or a nun will always be an option. I have surrounded them with priests friends who they can approach at any time and ask for spiritual direction. At one point in their lives, they will be confused and faced with problems. It is good to know that a priest is someone they can always turn to for any advice. Each vocation is a new story. Even if they do not become priests or nuns eventually, the seed that is forming in their minds will be seeds that they will plant with their future families. The rest is up to God.