But what is the attraction to porn? How is it linked so implicitly to the human condition?
The answer, as is often the case, lies in Man's hominid ancestor past. Before early proto-men could even fashion a jagged rock into a cutting tool, pornography existed, in the form of voyeurism. Keep in mind that mortality rates were certainly impossibly high in ancient times, perhaps 50 percent or even higher, so propagation was almost as important an enterprise to the survival of a species as eating. Once a member of any species reaches sexual maturity, hormones take over, and sexual behavior ensues as a healthy matter of course. But what about porn?
Perhaps a glimpse can be gained from the behavior of elephants. When elephants mate, the entire tribe often congregate in agitated excitement around copulating partners, including juveniles, and trumpet and roar in frenzy to the mating ritual. Simian species, such as gorillas, chimps and several other species of monkey are equally gregarious and snooping when members of the clan mate. Could this overt voyeurism be the earliest form of porn? Certainly, witnessing others have sex is the quintessence of pornographic media, so these early quasi-orgies had the same affect; to arouse the libido, and prompt others in the clan to mate as well, ensuring its survival and continuance.
Once early Homo Sapiens developed enough brain capacity to think abstractly, early forms of pornography were scrawled on walls inside of caves, perhaps as fertility icons, or just perhaps simply to arouse one's sexuality.
Substitute a glossy photo in a Penthouse magazine, or a brief adult video trailer downloaded online, the effect is precisely the same. Voyeurism is voyeurism, regardless if it involves observing a 'live' sex act, or one on paper, or even on a video monitor. Its obviously pleasurable appeal is to arouse the libido, and prompt mating behavior. It makes perfect sense, in a species-centric context, for "digital voyeurism", if I may, to be "addictive"; any value judgments levied by our modern gray-matter cortex are irrelevant and strictly subjective.
So where does guilt enter the equation?
As Man's brain evolved even further, highly specialized emotions evolved along with it, emotions our early ancestors lacked, and all animal species seem to lack as well. An excess of sexual behavior somewhere became tagged as promiscuity, new found feelings of guilt and remorse emerged, often accompanied by a sense of being hijacked by one's innate incorrigible bestial nature. In short, the higher 'thinking' brain suddenly found itself at odds with the primitive bestial 'Id', as described by Sigmund Freud, concealed deep within.
In the course of any given day, we struggle mightily with the Id. It never rests, never lets go, booming in primeval thunder, like a Jurassic Tyrannosaurus in abject carnal desire, but yet we can manage it well enough to build civilizations, invent science, and explore the stars beyond our world. A small miracle indeed.
Oddly, many Neolithic cave paintings depict bestial coupling, perhaps as a species crossing fertility ritual. Truly unsettling, indeed.
The emergence of the world's religions may also be partly attributed to this eternal reptilian struggle as well.
Some religions, such as Hinduism, celebrate and festoon sexuality in bright colors and festive regalia, refusing to see natural procreation as sin. Christianity and Islam, both see excessive sexual promiscuity, or sexual behavior outside of a monogamous relationship as original sin, to be punished by damnation and fall from grace, or even punishable by death in certain radical sects.
So where does this leave me and you?
It is my perception, as Darwin observed, nature favors the species, not the individual. A cold realization. Nature, it would seem, did not fashion and form us to be creatures of guilt, but to be creatures of continuance. "Pornography" is merely an extension of the natural toolkit provided to Man by nature to ensure his very survival.
My advice is to use adult media wisely. It's fine to use it as a virtual aphrodisiac, but don't let it stifle, or supplant, natural healthy sexual behavior. Remember, we've got a species to tend to over here!
Published by Mark Motz
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