The Parent's Guide to Protecting Children from Pedophiles

Protecting Our Greatest Natural Resource

Jack Wellman
I recently read and reviewed the book, The Parent's Guide to Protecting Children from Pedophiles and I must say I was thoroughly impressed. The author reveals clear signs and symptoms of children who have had to endure such a terrible and criminal act. Anywhere from 15 % to 25 % of women and 5% to 15% of men have been sexually abused as a child. That's one in four women and over one in ten men! These are conservative figures since many never report this to authorities and live with it. Worse, 60% of such abuse occurs within the immediate family; parents themselves, uncles, aunts, grandparents, and other close relatives.

This book gives real hope for both the victims and for the offenders in breaking free from its effects. This book includes evidences from children's behaviors in order to protect children from the hidden dangers of pedophilia that lurk everywhere in our society today. Sadly, this problem continues to grow worse with each passing year. These pedophiles leave in their wake ruined lives, wrecked emotions, and permanent scares. In some instances in creates havoc for future, adult relationships and in worse cast scenarios, makes children or latter adults contemplate feelings of worthlessness or even suicide. In a few cases it creates pedophiles from those who were abused.

The abuser receives short term, instant gratification while the abused endure a shattered lifetime. The abuser may receive five minutes of pleasure at the abusers lifelong expense. The author points out that the abuser often convinces themselves that it is "love" while it is in actuality one of the greatest crimes of humanity. It is self-serving, self-gratifying lust at the expense of another human being.

The book is filled with expert analysis of pedophilia's schemes and places and times that children are most at risk. It also gives clues from a child's behavior that may indicate sexual abuse. The author gives hope for recovery for both the victim and the offender. There is hope available. Recovery is possible. This book is an excellent source for protecting your children whether you're a parent, foster parent, grandparent with custody, teacher, or day care provider. It is a must read for anyone with young children. Particularly since most pedophiles are within the families relatives.

This 120 page paperback is only $8.95 so the author is not intending to make money but to help protect children from the mental ravages of sexual abuse. If ever there was a book that deals with the wretched scourge that is afflicting our children, this is it. The author has done a sterling job in preventative measures and dealing with children after the fact. As a father and grandfather, I want to protect my own children and grandchildren in every what possible. This book was truly an eye-opener.

Our children are our most precious resource. I believe we must do everything possible to protect them. It is critical to preserve their innocence, their self esteem, their worth and their dignity as a human being. They have every right to expect that their caregivers to do so. Children are not in a position to consent to sexual activity. We must protect them ourselves. Their very lives depend upon it and upon our diligence as caregivers.

Originally published on Jack Wellman's Blogspot

DISCLOSURE OF MATERIAL CONNECTION:
This content was based upon a free review copy the Contributor received.

Published by Jack Wellman

I'm a pastor at Mulvane Brethren Church (KS) & author who gives free training for Effective Evangelism at various churches in the states and have published 3 books on Amazon: "Teaching Children The Gospel",...  View profile

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  • Linda M. McCloud8/24/2011

    Great job

  • Darlene Levenson7/12/2011

    What an outstanding review and commentary! What really concerns me is, what kind of impact will this have on the children as they grow up, and in adulthood? How will this affect them when they want to date, or when/if they get married? I'm pretty sure all of them are affected in some way or another, and may not even realize that it stems from the abuse.

  • Patricia Sicilia7/2/2011

    I may seek this out.

  • Judy E. Harrell6/25/2011

    Thank you for this great review and insight Jack. I know someone who is very near and dear to my heart who was molested as a child and I truly believe he does have two personalities. However, if the pedophile is caught and accepts Christ as his personal Savior and then goes to Christian counseling, I truly believe that God can give him victory over this sin. Through Christ we can do all things!!!

  • Betty Asphy5/18/2011

    Jack sounds like a great book. I just watched a picture last night of a woman that had 15 different personalities. One of the personalities states they would take the pain of the abuse that she endured, because she could not handle it. It as a very moving story.

  • Lee Hansen4/23/2011

    Coming back for another visit.

  • Carmen Magnolia4/13/2011

    How sad situation! Children are not safe in any human being's care, not even their own relatives, and how horrific, for some not even their own parents! Excellent article!

  • Marie Stine4/12/2011

    Nice work, great review!

  • Jenny Heart4/10/2011

    Siva is absolutely right. Do this to a child, and you do it to God.Excellent!

  • Lucy M4/7/2011

    Great article. Every parent should be reading this book!

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