The Passing of a World War II Veteran

Sandy James

Statistics tell us that every day, we lose more than 1,000 World War II vets in this country. On October 14, 2011, my father-in-law became one of those statistics.


Dad, Alphie J. Michaud, served during World War II and arrived in Normandy just a few days after D-Day. He never spoke of the war and did not keep in contact with his fellow comrades. We're not sure of the reason for this but we presume it was too painful for him. We do know that he arrived in Normandy and helped with the project to clean up the beach and identify soldiers. I can only imagine how painful this must've been for any soldier who was there.


What's really funny is that over the years, my husband and I would ask Dad if there was any one place that he'd like to go visit. We, of course, would've taken him wherever he wanted to go. His answer was always the same: Normandy and he'd answer without hesitation. We would then offer to take him to Normandy and he would always decline and not discuss the subject further.


Over the years, we also asked Dad to tell his story as a World War II vet. We offered to record it and send it to the Smithsonian for him. Again, he wasn't interested. He never said anything about World War II or about any other war since then. He kept his thoughts and feelings about war to himself.


Even though Dad did not talk about the war, he kept his World War II uniform in his closet and his medals in a little box in his dresser. We came across his box of medals but unfortunately, he must've given away his uniform as it was not in his closet.


Dad was 94 years old and lived a good life until he fell and injured his head. He received internal bleeding from his fall and it wouldn't stop.


To all soldiers that served during World War II or any other war, my husband and I thank you for your service and your gallant efforts. To Dad, you're at peace now, sleep well.


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  • Betty Asphy2/22/2012

    Sorry to hear that.

  • Philip Theibert11/16/2011

    Great tribute to a great man

  • Charlotte Kuchinsky11/16/2011

    I'm so sorry for your loss, Sandy. I know that doesn't change anything but at least you'll know others are pulling with you.

  • TRESA PATTERSON11/15/2011

    My heart is with you through your loss. My father was a WWII vet, too. He passed in 1994. This was such a lovely tribute, Sandy.

  • Memmay Moore11/15/2011

    Thank you for sharing your story....I had an aunt and uncle who were veterans, and no one in our large family including them ever talked much about the war either. I was too young to ask, as they died in their 50's.

  • Delicia Powers11/14/2011

    Beautiful tribute Sandy, I am so sorry for your loss...

  • R.C. Johnson11/14/2011

    A very loving tribute to your father-in-law whose service to our country at Normandy must have been very difficult indeed. I personally much appreciate what he did for all of us so many years ago in that country far away. Blessings to you and your family, Sandy. rcj

  • Sivaramakrishnan Ananthanarayanan11/14/2011

    My dad too was a doctor in the British army in World War ll, but he never talked about his experiences. The pain of war is too benumbing, I think. After all the suffering, a piece of paper for peace is signed to bring closure! -siva

  • Dan Reveal11/14/2011

    I'm sorry, Sandy! This is a great tribute!!

  • Mike Oberg11/14/2011

    Touching tribute. My condolences.

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