Pros:
- You don't want commitment and he doesn't want commitment.
- He can't monitor your schedule because someone else is monitoring his.
- You can date other people and so can he.
- You don't have to go out in public because he can't be seen with you in public.
- You don't have to buy him gifts coz his wife will get suspicious.
- You don't need to meet his parents coz his wife already did.
- You don't need to meet his friends coz his wife already did and she might find out.
- You don't need to see where he lives coz his wife sees the house.
- You don't need to meet his favorite dog coz it's only barking for one tree.
- And you don't need to express the words I love you! coz someone else already did.
Cons:
- A relationship without direction is bound to be damaging, a heart break and a waste of time.
- If you fall in love, you can never get the same affection... ever!
- If he cheated on his wife, what makes you think that he won't do it to you too?
- Trust will always be an issue on everything.
- You will never be 100% happy coz you're always in hiding.
- Knowing that you're not alone in his life will result in paranoia, self-pity and dissatisfaction.
- You can never make demands esp. his time.
- Other people will judge you shamefully.
- And you will feel shameful.
- But most of all, you will never be number 1 in his life!
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3 Comments
Post a CommentI don't think anyone should be calling anyone names, none of us are perfect in any shape or form. Sometimes these things happen, and in actual fact, some married men actually do leave their wives, meeting someone else is the catalyst they needed to make that change, even if that person isn't who they stay with after their marriage does end.
Uh, correct me if I'm wrong, but I think No 1 on the list of cons is that you're a dirty skank for dating another woman's man... Can't you get your own?
No one would ever be #1 in his life but him!