The Pros and Cons of Traveling Alone

Traveling alone is definitely not for everyone, but for those so inclined, it can be the opportunity of a lifetime. Let's take a look at the pros and cons of traveling alone.

One big advantage of traveling alone is that you have ultimate freedom to do exactly as you please. You don't have to abide by anyone else's schedule or make compromises about where to go or what to do.

You also get to be gloriously self-indulgent: if you want to spend half an hour gazing at a painting in the Louvre, or examining a sarcophagus in the British Museum, you can do it. There's no one tugging on your elbow demanding to go, no annoyed companion to appease.

Another advantage is that solo travelers only have to book one seat on a flight or train, one bed in a youth hostel, or one ticket to an event, without having to worry about trying to find several seats next to each other.

However, I think the greatest advantage of traveling alone is that it affords the most incredible opportunity to meet people in a way that just doesn't happen when you are traveling with a companion or a group.

I traveled solo around the world when I was in my 20s, and it was truly one of the high points of my life. I met any number of amazing people, many of whom took me sightseeing, opened their homes to me, and went out of their way to help me. These people represented a cross-section of the best of human nature, and my experience was enriched immeasurably by their company.

What is the negative side of traveling alone? The biggest concern, especially for a woman, is safety. Learn as much as you can ahead of time about the cities you are going to visit. When you first arrive, ask at the youth hostel or hotel about what neighborhoods are risky. Avoid being out alone at night, and traveling through lonely, deserted places. Be aware of your surroundings and pay attention to other people in the vicinity. In other words, use the same common-sense precautions that any single woman would take in her own home town.

Another negative aspect is that periods of loneliness will inevitably occur, especially on an extended trip. During the course of my 6-month trip I was often in the company of delightful people, but there were also times when I sick and lonely and feeling quite sorry for myself. But overall, I believe the negative aspects are far outweighed by the positive.

Traveling alone may not be for everyone. If you feel uncomfortable being on your own in unfamiliar places, then it's probably not for you. On the other hand, if you are an independent, adventurous person who thinks for yourself, enjoys a challenge, and are willing to go with the flow even when the flow takes a surprising change of course, then it is guaranteed to be a rewarding and unforgettable experience.