At some point in our lives, we have all done it. Some do it more often than others and there really is no pattern, no rhyme or reason for it - the 'whine' can occur at any given moment. Now, a study has released the findings that whining is actually the most annoying sound in the world. You can read the news report here.
My father has never been big in the patience department. Now that he is ninety years old, he has coined a response to his whining, "I'm ninety years old, I may not have much time left and, therefore, I do not want to spend it waiting in a doctor's office."
I can't say I blame him but my dear sweet mother is patient. She'll joke and tease him and try to get his patience meter going in the right direction. We were sitting in the doctor's office yesterday and there was a sign on the counter that said, "There will be a $5 charge for whining." We chuckled.
When two patients arrived after we were already seated and waiting for dad's name to be called and they were summoned before my father, the whining began, "What theā¦did you hear that? They called them before me. That's it, let's go."
My mother calmly told him to be "patient" that those other people were probably seeing another doctor. Dad calmed slightly at that thought but began to whine again as the time dragged on. Mind you, this is all happening in the span of about 20 minutes. It wasn't as though we were waiting for hours.
When my father's name was called, everyone was well aware that he was not happy about the wait. He stood abruptly and followed the nurse into the examining room. The doctor paused outside the door and when he entered the room, he said, "How are we doing today?" and I quickly explained that my father was not happy about the wait.
My mother, in her typical light-hearted manner added, "Well, I guess we'll just have to pay the $5 Whining fee."
"Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love."
Sources:
http://www.wired.com/wiredscience/2011/06/annoying-whine-evolution/
Published by Michele Starkey
Optimist who enjoys writing, laughing and spreading good news. If I have but one life to live, I hope to make mine memorable. My epitaph will read: she lived, she loved, she left. View profile
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52 Comments
Post a CommentHow cute and sweet! Thanks , Michele, and thanks for the virtual flowers.
Cute story, Michele and I'm already like your Mom with my husband. He has no patience!
Your mother's answer was adorable. My hubby is impatient also and it drives me nuts!
Good essay, great parents!
Wonderful my friend...
LOL, we all may whine...in time, would you like some cheese with that whine? Some of my fav whine lines...now, I have a new one, thanks to you..you may pay a fine, if you whine...haha.
I like his 90+ motto. :)
We find our own world with different composure levels; agreed, easily said than practiced! Your mother is an angel, may her tribe increase. But I commiserate with your dad. I might not have acted differently in the circumstances - after all, we are human! Great read that brings out human nature. Thanks, Michele - siva
Have been working with children over 25 years and I have learned to completely 'tune out' the whining. That annoying sound no longer affects me. However, when it comes from adults ... oh, boy ... I want to send them to 'time out':) Patience, I need more of it! I love this article.
i'm slowing learning this patience thing myself after all of these years