The Supportive Family

There is no greater time than now to express family togetherness. When all else fails the family should be the element for support and encouragement. Family members who have lost jobs need to be reminded to have faith and hope in the future. There are three kinds of support a family can give to keep one another strong in tough times.

The first is emotional support. Many people become depressed and withdrawn after different kinds of lost. They may hang around friends and family but somehow attempt to hide their feelings. Therefore family members must be sensitive to the mood and atmosphere of one another. Telling a husband or wife that you will be there for them no matter what happens goes a long way toward restoring confidence. Receiving a "love you" hug from a little son or daughter can be quite refreshing. Many who have been rejected by this economy, whether it has been through shutdowns or layoffs, are surviving off the love of family.

The second is physical support. With home foreclosures at an all time high, many baby boomers as well as the younger generation may find themselves moving back home with parents. Parents must prepare themselves for such an adventure. This may cause an adjustment in one's living conditions but it is an alternative to knowing our loved ones are out on the streets. Plus the benefits outweigh the risk. Our children can help us stay encouraged and hopeful as well. It can also help us save money if our children can contribute financially. Nevertheless, family members must support one another on a daily basis.

Spirituality is the third method of support. This activity doesn't mean that the family should put on its Sunday's best and go to church, although this is a great way of fellow shipping. Spirituality can mean many things. Meditating together, while holding hands in a circle is a form of spirituality. Sitting down quietly and listening to soft music can be very inspiring. Reading inspirational poems and scriptures can enlighten our soul. The purpose of establishing a spiritual ritual is to keep our mind and heart at peace.

Moreover, if family members participate in various fun activities together, healthy relationships are created. Activities such as hiking, camping, and fishing are great ways to develop closeness. Celebrating birthday parties and accomplishments no matter how small helps keep hope alive. These are also times that produce good memories. Family members can take pictures of one another and share them from generation to generation. Planning a number of indoor and outdoor games together helps occupy time and focus in oppressive times. Fun helps time pass quickly. Therefore a family reunion forced by economic woes isn't a burden if family members approach it as a fun adventure.