The Twelve Days of Christmas: A Creative Christmas Tradition

Afton Nelson
A fun and creative Christmas tradition I remember from my childhood is called "The Twelve Days of Christmas. It all starts on December 14th and continues up until December 25th. A family or individual is chosen who might need a little extra Christmas Cheer and each day, starting on the 14th, a small gift is left for that person, anonymously. On the 25th, you can either choose to reveal yourself, or continue to keep your identity a secret.

The Twelve Days of Christmas can be done in different ways. One way is to purchase a nice Nativity Set and give one piece of the set a day, ending with the baby Jesus on the 25th. Gifts could be selected with a theme in mind, such as food or music. Or, you could simply give a different, but thoughtful gift every day.

This Christmas tradition is especially fun if you are doing it with kids. Kids love to doorbell ditch for such a good cause! Kids will quickly get into the Christmas Spirit by taking part in The Twelve Days of Christmas. Here are a few things to remember if you decide to try out this fun way to brighten someone's holiday season.

Choose Wisely: Think of any friends or neighbors who might be going through a rough patch, or who might be alone during the holiday season. Receiving a little gift every day will really be something fun for someone to look forward to, so think of who will benefit from something like this.

Select Your Gifts: It's helpful to have your twelve gifts ahead of time so you don't find your self rushing around at the last minute trying to pull something together. If you are going to include home baked goodies as part of the twelve gifts, make a note on your calendar as a reminder to have your gift ready to go in time. Some gift ideas include the already mentioned Nativity set, Christmas tree ornaments, a nice Christmas book, candles, picture frames, or fancy baked goods or fruit.

Create Note Cards: Make a little note card for each gift. If you have the gift of rhyme, try creating a take-off on the Christmas carol, "The Twelve Days of Christmas". Make sure your notes indicate which "day" you are on and include a fun Christmas greeting.

Deliver Your Gifts: Delivering your gifts is probably the most fun part of this tradition. You want to remain anonymous, so definitely ringing the doorbell and running is a great way to deliver your gift. However, after a few days of this type of delivery, your recipient will start to recognize a pattern and may try and catch you! Throw them off with your stealth gift delivery maneuvers. Vary the time you drop off your gifts, or don't always ring the door bell. Try enlisting the help of some neighborhood kids to deliver the gifts face to face, just to throw them off a bit. (Consider a bribe to get them to keep their mouths shut about your true identity). Be creative, but don't let them know who you are.

The Reveal: If you decide to reveal yourselves on Christmas day, you could simply sign your names to the last note. You might also consider delivering your twelfth gift personally and singing a Christmas carol or two. If the person is alone on Christmas consider inviting them over to share your Christmas meal.

The Twelve Days of Christmas is a wonderful tradition that will be sure to lift someone's spirits and bring them joy during the holiday season.

Published by Afton Nelson

I think with my right brain most of the time and have enjoyed writing ever since I learned about the 5 paragraph essay in 6th grade. I studied advertising in college & interned in New York City hoping to ge...  View profile

  • A different piece of a Nativity set each day, ending with the baby Jesus, makes great gifts.
  • Plan out which gifts you will give in advance and include cleverly written notes.
  • Keep your identity a secret!

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  • G Stokes12/4/2010

    I did this with my six boys all the years they were growing up. They still talk about and remember the fun times we had doing it. They have continued this tradition with their kids. They remember this long after the gifts they received are forgotten. Thanks for sharing.

  • Tara11/9/2007

    Actualy the twelve days of Christmas start on Christmas day, which is the first day of Christmas and the 12th day of Christmas is on Epiphany. Just got researching the 12 Days of Christmas and this is the only site that I have found that says this. If you really are going to do the 12 days of Christmas you should research it and not go by what everyone else says.

  • Charlotte Kuchinsky12/3/2006

    Super article! I love, love, LOVE the idea. I think I'll start it will my grandson (he's three) and see if he'll continue it. Thanks for sharing.

  • Afton Nelson11/30/2006

    Thanks Renee and Amy. Renee, I remember your idea for college students and Amy, I will have to check out the 12 days of love notes. I just saw a love note I put in my husband's lunch on Valentine's Day last year. I'd totally forgotten about it, but he'd kept it that long!

  • Renee B11/30/2006

    Great idea!! Sounds similar to my tradition for college students. I love the idea. Even just "Random Acts of Kindness" to someone you care about would be a good idea.

  • Amy Brantley11/30/2006

    What a marvelous idea! I'm going to do this for my boyfriend. Even though he's not depressed or anything, I think it would be really sweet. Of course there's no way for it to be anonymous, but it still sounds fun :) Have you seen my 12 Days of Love Notes? That's a sweet one to do for a partner.

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