There Are Things Only a Wife Should Know

Why Did You Give it Away?

Elisa Ashley

There are things only a wife should know

Like how you like your eggs

That you don't eat fish

That you're afraid of letting your family down

There are things only a wife should know

The password for our voice mail

The password for your debit card

Your car pulls to the left and hates to go over 60

There are things only a wife should know

What kind of toothpaste you like

Onions make you nauseous

How long it takes you to get ready for work in the morning

There are things only a wife should know

Which side of the bed you sleep on

How you like to kiss

How you like to snuggle while we watch a movie at home

There are things only a wife should know

Your deepest thoughts

Your hopes and dreams

Your goals for the family

There are things only a wife should know

How the whole house smells like your aftershave and shower gel after you leave for work in the morning

What your favorite shirt is

Where you like to hide important papers

There are things only a wife should know

But now SHE knows too

And it hurts that SHE knows

It hurts that you brought her into our lives..

Into MY life, MY world, MY family

WHILE I WAS STILL HERE

There are things only a wife should know

Like how our daughter likes to wear her hair

Or how our son prefers peanut butter over meat

There are things only a wife should know

But she knows. She replaced me when you left me for her...

She took care of OUR kids because I couldn't live with you and HER...

She took care of YOU

She heard your fears

She heard your dreams

She stole everything I had

And you handed it to her.

I was right here.

I AM right here.

There are things only a wife should know

Now she knows.

You gave her everything I had.

You helped her become everything I was.

Who am I now?

There are things only a wife should know.

Published by Elisa Ashley

Elisa is currently very heavy into writing, living and loving with the man of her dreams, Matthew Austin.  View profile

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  • Gyani9/16/2007

    Very well written. Your poem conveys the emotions very powerfully. I am sure it'll make the guilty person wince.

  • Cat9/10/2007

    I am fighting tears as I read this, and feeling your pain. Your words are brushstrokes that paint a picture for all to see, even when we don't want to look. You truly are gifted!

  • Sophie8/27/2007

    This is a very powerful poem. Thanks for sharing it.
    Sophie

  • Lolaness7/10/2007

    Wow ... you definitely have a way with words that evokes strong emotion. Fantastic stuff

  • Insomnia Princess7/6/2007

    Made me want to cry reading this. Terrible, sad story but a wonderful poem. Thanks for sharing!

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