Things to Consider Before You Go Blond

Lighter Locks Come with a Price

Amy Mullen
The saying goes "blonds have more fun". While this may or may not be true many women want to find out for themselves. If you aren't naturally blond you have to become blond. There may be a little more to consider than just wanting to do it.

I have blond highlights myself. My natural color is a light brown and I can't stand it. I didn't want to go completely blond so I went with the highlights. It works well for me. Whether you are considering highlights or all over blond here are some things to consider before you make the decision to go for it.

Cost

For a good natural blond look you are better off going to a salon. The cost of a good coloring can run up to a hundred bucks a shot. You can't let it go for much longer than a month without going back. That's $1200.00 a year. Is that within your budget? Sure you could go once every two months but you end up with dark roots, which most likely will not be flattering.

Highlights are a little easier to manage and don't require you to return to the salon monthly. I personally only have to do highlights twice a year. I can also do them at home because I have naturally curly hair and it's really hard to mess up highlights if you have curls. If my hair were straight I'd leave it to the professionals.

Your Coloring

Not everyone looks good with blond hair. Everyone's skin tone is different and only certain people can go blond and have it look natural. I'm sure you've seen it on the streets; the women who just shouldn't have done it. What is the point of making yourself look worse?

I learned this the hard way in college. A friend begged me to let her do my hair. I don't know what I was thinking when I agreed. She bleached my hair blond and I looked like death warmed over. I still shudder at that memory. I dyed my hair back to brown the very next day. A good salon can at least suggest the best shade of blond for you skin type if you insist you must do it.

Hair Health

When you bleach hair you are changing the molecular structure of your hair. The bleach opens up the cuticle of the hair and chemically removes the pigment of your hair. When it is rinsed away the cuticle will lay back down. The problem is it never lays back down as it was when you started. Your hair has just sustained damage that you cannot fix. It will remain so until it is trimmed off.

Though this kind of damage is not fixable you can lessen it somewhat by using quality hair products. I would recommend using them before you bleach so your hair is as healthy as possible when you go in. In my case my hair has to be babied. My natural curls are already fragile before I highlight.

Hair Loss

There is hair damage and there is total hair loss. It's not common if you have a professional doing your hair but if you are doing it on your own, it's possible. The damage of bleaching can build up and your hair can break off and fall out. When my friend bleached my entire head and I re-dyed it brown the next day I was very lucky. It could have been a total disaster! The longer your hair is the more damage you will accumulate. After a while you may have to bite the bullet and sport a shorter hair do just to get rid of the damage.

Make Up

You may find yourself starting from scratch in the make up department. Your new hair color will affect the look of your face and you may need to buy different colors and shades. Depending on where you shop for your cosmetics this can be pricey and pretty much a guessing game. This may hold true for some of your wardrobe as well. What once looked really good on you pre-coloring may not go with your new mane.

It's Not All Scary

Though there are minor issues with going blond it may be just the thing you need. You may feel stuck in a rut and wanting something new. Maybe you are hitting an early midlife crisis. Whatever the case may be, if it feels good then you should do it. I strongly believe a person should do what they can to be happy. If you think blond hair will give you a new outlook on your life then by all means go for it.

Published by Amy Mullen

Amy lives in upstate New York. When she isn't writing she is encouraging her children to dream big.  View profile

  • For a good natural blond look you are better off going to a salon.
  • Highlights are a little easier to manage and don�t require you to return to the salon monthly.
  • Not everyone looks good with blond hair.
When you bleach hair you are changing the molecular structure of your hair.

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  • blondie5/19/2010

    "Go Blonde" is also a Parade in Riga that takes place every year
    more information is here:
    http://www.playriga.com/index/playriga/events/go-blonde-parade

  • diane11/30/2009

    maybe not a goldmine of information, danielle

  • Ania Petterson8/15/2007

    this article did not answer my problems or make me change my mond on going blonde. i love being a blonde! i am much more confident and my hair looks a lot better ( because it used to be black). every one says that i should go back to black, but i like it and isnt that all that matters?

  • Talia 6/17/2007

    When I had blonde hair everyone would look at me. Blonde do stand out, How ever That was not the best shade on me and every two weeks I had to get my roots done!!! It cost you a lot of money. Find a shade that works with your skin tone. I love my new light brown hair, It brings out my blue eyes.

  • KingdomWarrior2/15/2007

    Or try a wig first! Cheap ones can cost around $25. At least you can see what you look like and if your clothing and make up still works

  • Sherri Granato10/18/2006

    I am glad to see that I am not the only one that went from natural blonde to dirty blonde from having kids, and somewhere along the way I picked up strawberry highlights. I only use natural dye in my hair as that stuff in a box looks scary to me. Great article!

  • Nichole Williams10/3/2006

    I too am naturally blonde, but have darkened up since having children. I've been considreing going a few shades lighter. Thanks for the info. And to the spell checker... both blonde and blond are accepted spellings depending on your locale. :P

  • Joyce Williams9/30/2006

    I think prices differ through out the country. I am blonde and wish you would spell blond the real way blonde.

  • Jennifer Rogers8/18/2006

    I am lovin' this! I am a natural blond by nature, but with age (32) and having kids, it has turned a dirty dishwater color. Personally I do not have the funds to keep going to the salon. I have been debating on what to do, color all over or highlights. This was a great article! Thanks so much!

  • Danielle Foster5/11/2006

    This article is a gold-mine of information. Your advice is very worthwhile.

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