Things to Consider Before Making a Big Move

Christie Silvers
Sometimes making a move is a necessity; job, family, school, etc. Whether your move is necessary or optional, you should always think it through beforehand. A big move requires the most thought that you can put into it. Moving across the state or across the country is a big decision. Here are a few things to consider before making a big move.

Cost- The cost of moving is only one cost that you should think about before making a big move. Yes, the actual move -- renting a truck, turning on new utilities services, gas, etc -- is the biggest expense to think about, but you will need to think about the cost of things once you get moved. Will you be able to afford to live in the area you have chosen? Is the cost of living more expensive there? Would it be better to move closer to the job you will have or further from it? There are many different types of cost to think about before making a big move.

Job- If you are moving because your job has transferred you, then you don't really have to worry too much about having a job. If you have decided to move without a job then you will need to find out if there are available jobs in the area that you want to live. If at all possible, it is a good idea to have a job to go to before you move. There's nothing worse than being in a new city without a job and having to worry about bills piling up.

Housing- Having a home to go to is an important thing to consider before making a big move. Does the area you are heading to have affordable housing? Will you be able to find a home big enough for your whole family for a price that you can afford? If you will be renting, will you be stuck with a long lease term or do you plan to stay in the rental short-term while finding something more permanent? All of these are important things to think about when it comes to housing. Your housing situation should be worked out before you are even ready to pack up your old house.

Support- This is one of the biggest reasons that my husband can't convince me that we should make a big move. All of my family is here. Having supportive people in your life can be such a relief when unexpected things pop up. When you move away from those support people you will be all alone, for a while anyway, until you make new friends. Say for example, your mom babysits your children every Saturday night so that you and your spouse can go out for a date night alone. When you move away you may not have anyone to do that for you. That is just a small example, there are many other things that support people do for you; gives you someone to talk to, has a shoulder for you to cry on, can help you out in a pinch, etc. Definitely think about your support system when deciding whether or not to make a big move.

Safety- Safety is another issue to consider when you are thinking about making a big move. You will want to check out the area that you will be moving to before settling on that location. You wouldn't want to move your family to an unsafe neighborhood just because the price is right. Your family's safety is always a number one priority.

Schools- Finally, there are the schools in the area that you are moving to. If you have children, whether school-age or soon to be school-age, you will want to check out the school system and how it rates to other schools in that area. You may decide to move to a different location because it has better schools.

No matter how much research you do, a big move is always stressful. Thinking things through before moving is a huge help. Make lists of the pros and cons before you make your decision. In the end, you will be grateful that you thought it all through instead of just jumping at the first mention of moving. By using all, or a combination of some, of the suggestions above you could find yourself thinking about things that you hadn't even considered before. Making a big move can be scary, but it can also be exciting and an adventure.

Published by Christie Silvers

In addition to online articles, Christie also enjoys writing paranormal fiction. She lives in Georgia with her husband, three daughters, chickens, dogs, and numerous cats. No, it's not a farm, but sometime...  View profile

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  • DrDevience5/13/2007

    All of my moves have been last-minute whims. I just get bored and move somewhere else for a bit. guess I'm a gypsy at heart. Even my move to Sweden was made in a snap. I never regretted any of them.

  • Tweak5/11/2007

    I wish my mom would have read this before she just decided to move with her new bf. Nice article.

  • Herstory5/10/2007

    Well said! Moved our family once after 16+ years in the same place... we had no choice, but sometimes "God closes a door to open a window." Our kids were 9th grade & 5th grade then. They survived just fine (notice I didn't say 'they survived easily'). There is always sacrifice, no matter if you stay or you go. Somehow, it all works out - thankfully.

  • Angie Shiflett5/10/2007

    This is a well written article with many great suggestions. Thank you for sharing it with us!

  • Joniv5/10/2007

    Wise words!

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