Thinking About Changes I'd like to Make Before My Life is Over

I was sitting quietly at the laptop when this title popped into my head. Now mind you, I was sitting here wondering what insightful article I could dream up to inspire people to get off their duffs and take life seriously. Doesn't it seem like some people think this gift we have called life will just go on forever? I am more aware at this ripe old age of a very young and sassy 50 years old that I am not a youngster any more. Do I feel old? Never! Do I care that my age is 50, a royal milestone in this game of life? Never! But I would be lying if I did not admit I get reflective about what I need to do yet. Simply because I do not know when the last sands will fall in that hourglass.

If I could impress one thing to people, maybe it would be to be thankful to wake up in the morning, lots of folks who have passed would probably like that opportunity for one more day. Yes you may have aches and pains, but at least you are feeling them. You may not have lots of money, but there are tons of things that money cannot buy. Please remember, despite what people have told you about money, you can't take it with you!

As you follow along here, we would like to outline some things you can do while you still can.

1. Be thankful for the lessons you have received in your life.It is what has gotten you here to this point. Believe that life is a constant learning way of thinking.

2. Touch the lives of your children in ways that will impact them forever. Teach them that empathy and compassion are never a mistake. Teach by example.

3. Make amends with that family member. Sometimes you don't want to be the first one to step up. You believe that by doing this you are admitting that the rift was your fault. Step up and be the one that decides that your connection is too important to leave old struggles keep you estranged. Ask anyone that has experienced this in their life. If they had it to do over, they would of done things differently.

4. Be generous with all that you have. Help those less fortunate. Donate good clean jackets and coats for the homeless this winter. Socks and gloves would also be appreciated.

5. Adopt that elderly neighbor whose family is not nearby. See what their needs are. You may find they are things that are quick and simple and very do-able. Fix an extra plate when you are planning a meal.

6. Become the friend that you would want in your life. No matter what, make time when they are in crisis to listen, dry their tears, and offer a hug.

7. Tell that teacher who impacted your life and believed in you what a difference they made. Make sure to tell them that having them support you meant everything.

8. Take time to stop and be thankful for the things in your life. This is not mumbo jumbo. I had a friend this morning say to me, after I inquired as to how she was doing say, "oh.........ok." rather negatively. She then quickly turned back to me and said, 'I should not have sounded like that." "I was able to get up this morning, and I have a job to go to, and I am not dealing with the California wildfires, I have much to be grateful for." And in that moment, her whole demeanor changed.

9.If you have resources to help someone in the way of a job, housing, etc...try to do what you can.

10. Mentor someone. If you have a God given talent, teach someone your passion. Volunteer your efforts at a school, youth group, etc...