Three Ways to Lead by Example

One school of thought dictates that the very best leaders lead by example. They do not necessarily make lofty speeches or expect that followers will "do what they say, not what they do." Instead, these individuals may actually be quiet, "behind the scenes" sorts of people who use their actions to inspire others. If you are interested in learning how to lead by example, here are three surefire ways to inspire others and influence situations:

First, make sure that your actions match your words. This does not mean that you need to be a big talker or someone who tells others what to do. What it does mean is that you live your values and convictions and that if you say you will do something or state a belief, you use your actions to back that up. If you have an expectation or a stated value of honesty, it is important that you behave honestly yourself. This means NOT telling little white lies or cheating on your taxes-it means that if you value honesty, you live honestly. If you tell a group, committee, your kids or anyone that you will do something, follow through is important-your actions should simply reinforce your stated values and beliefs.

Secondly, be willing to stand up and be counted for what is important to you. Whether it is your religious beliefs, personal values, or taking a political stance, if you feel strongly about something, a strong leader is willing to stand up for that conviction. Instead of simply saying that you want to save the environment, for example, are you willing to reorganize your life to recycle, help out to save damaged or compromised environments, donate money to individuals and organizations working to help the cause, and other actions that will help save the environment? Consider how you can stand up, be counted and speak out to support what you believe in and others will likely follow your lead.

Finally, those who lead by example allow others to be different without feeling the need to convert. You do not need to lecture, proselytize or hand out pamphlets of information to everyone you see in order to inspire or lead others. By allowing others to have their own points of view and to simply witness your conviction to yours, you will be a stronger leader than someone who feels the constant need to preach and convert.