Thursday's Dating Challenge

Okay it Thursday and if you like a lot of ladies and gentlemen out there you probably don't have your Friday or Saturday date lined up so I've got some great ideas to help you get it going. However, please don't hold me responsible for some unforeseen jerks you might inadvertently attract, unfortunately is happens to the best of us. But I'll save that story for another post.

Okay today is the day to make it happen so let's head out for coffee and a bagel. What! Your cutting carbs, forget about that today don't even eat then but this is an investment in your future un-singlehoodnes so please take a walk on the wild side with me. First the most important thing is make sure you're looking kind of hot boys and girls or else there really is no point in trying. Now that we've got that out the way go to you bagel shop and make it a good one like Noah's Bagels or some place that has a good line and a twenty to forty plus mix of ages of people on their way to work. Today don't just stroll in today wait in your car or peruse the magazine stand and wait to get in line in front or behind someone who you think is kind of hot. Look for wedding rings so you don't waste your time. So what do you do now? Well become a sweet first timer or a regular who always get the same thing and is ready to try something new.

Turn to you target in front or behind you and say something like, Oh my gosh, have you have the Asiago Bagel or it looks good, or hey what's your favorite bagel here I haven't tried this place before? Remember to smile and be engaging if you get a smile back you've broken the ice. Now keep the flow going, be excited about the bagel and try to transition from bagel help to, oh I'm sorry I'm so rude (smile, giggle) we've just been chatting away and I haven't told you my name. Listen it should be a piece of cake from there but if you can't close the deal that's okay this time because your just warming up and the next time you try it it'll be easier but I doubt you'll get turned down too often. Just remember it is important to be exited because most people love an exciting engaging partner and if you're that easy to smile and laugh it's a sure sign your easy to get along with. No that's it for now so happy hunting and please let me know how you fared after you've tried it or if you're getting stuck post a comment and let me see where I can help you. Good luck!