First of all, try to broader your knowledge base. Widen up your knowledge in different topics in order for you to communicate when facing with people specialize in different fields. With the knowledge equip, you will automatically speak confidently because you know and understand what you are talking. You are not talking in an empty nutshell.
When you running out of topics when communicate with your falling women or friends, try to post some questions to your communication partner. Then, you will stop the talking part while listening to what your friends trying to answer you. Listen carefully what there are telling you to show respect and also get some ideas what he/she interest are. If you are expert in his/her interest then you can share more with him.
To communicate confidently, you need to be very alert and observant to your surroundings. As the surroundings can be one of the communication topics. Try to keep your mind alive and concentrate. Don¡¯t be distracted by other things as distraction will easily lead to misunderstanding and mistrust. Concentrate while talking to your new friends is also a sign of respect from you to them.
During the conversation with strange people, control your emotion. Stay calm and relaxed. You must feel comfortable with who you are and do not let the pressure to perform well to control you. By staying calm, relaxed and comfortable you will be able to have a confident accent come out naturally from your inner self. This will help you to boost the confident level.
Keep everything basic and simple. Don¡¯t find something which will pose difficulty to you. Let everything to be simple and easy. This will help to increase your confident level when communicate with strange people.
Watch your body language-gestures, postures and eye contact. As this speak louder than words. Unconsciously, you body language will be interpreted by everyone surroundings. We can see from someone gestures to determine whether he/she is very nervous. But if we are not aware of the body language we might not notice what we did naturally which reflect our inner emotion. So avoid gesture and postures which reflect the insecure in our inner emotion.
Lastly practice makes perfect. Practice more! You can either practice through phone conversation with your life long pals. Or you can practice talking to yourself through the mirror in your room. Practice and practice and you will automatically find out you are born naturally to talk confidently.
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