Tips for the Finding the Perfect Swimsuit

Jamie K. Wilson
There are about nine women over the age of thirty who look really good in a bikini, and none who look great in a bikini if they're overweight, like most of us Certain Age women seem to be. It's not easy to find a good one-piece suit either. Why? Because fashions are designed to change every year, store buyers purchase the latest styles, and what looks good on an anorexic 18-year-old model is not likely to look good on my thirtysomething body.

The trick is finding the ideal suit for your body type, whether it's fashionable or not, and then sticking with it. Ignore fashion magazines. They don't care about you, they care about selling product. Instead, remember that the suit that makes you look fantastic will never go out of style.

Finding Perfection

Solid colors are always better. Big, bold prints are more likely to make you look like a hippo than a fashion diva, and small prints are worse. Look, instead, for solid colors, or for suits designed in color chunks. Take it from light on top to dark on bottom to minimize your hips.

Pay attention to your skin color. Black or very dark suits look better on medium-complected women. Very dark skinned women, regardless of size, often look phenomenal in jewel tones. And women with pale skin look best in medium colors, or suits that blend solid colors from medium to very dark shades (again, top to bottom).

Shop with a trustworthy friend. You are not the best judge of what works for your body, and neither is the salesperson. Besides, mirrors in dressing rooms tend to be warped; ever notice how different clothes look when you get home with them? Your honest good friend will give you the best assessment.

If you still want a print, look for v-shapes that point down toward your bellybutton. Stripes in this orientation maximize your bustline and minimize your waist and hips. This trick also works well for solids that are put together in v or diamond shapes. If you use any other print, use large prints instead of small ones, and look for prints that are blended with solids.

Spandex is your expensive friend. Suits made with lots of spandex, like the Lane Bryant Miraclesuit, are worth the price; they are also typically made in classic designs, rather than following recent fashion trends, making them usable year after year. Look at these suits as investments, not a one-season thing.

Asymmetrical wraps - the kind that start on one hip and fasten on the opposite hip - are a great choice for women with great curves. They draw the eye inward just as the v-shape pattern does. Folded or pleated cloth, typical in this sort of suit, is also great for disguising tummy bulge and other small figure problems.

Check out lots of suits; you might be surprised at what flatters you. For instance, high-rise legs can be very flattering on short-legged women, but won't work on women who have saddlebags on their hips; these women should consider the suit with a built-in flirty skirt, one that swishes out when you twirl. A two-piece full-cover suit, like a tankini, can give you many more options while still looking great.

A must for larger women: a good built-in support bra. Large saggy breasts will ruin any suit, giving you a round outline instead of that hourglass figure you're looking for. This distracts from everything good about the suit. Well-supported breasts can give you the perfect shape, minimizing the waist and maximizing the curves.

While the front is important, don't forget the caboose. Many women forget to do a rear check - much easier if you brought that friend along - and wind up with a swimsuit that rides up, or that lets cellulite show. Look at the top around your shoulders for bulges as well; most women forget this part. If you have back bulges, consider a high-rise back suit or a suit with no back at all.

As a last resort, buy a pretty sarong in dark colors. Take it off when you get in the water, then put it right back on when you get out. Tied at the hip, sarongs have a slenderizing quality equivalent to the one you get from asymmetrical ties.

Published by Jamie K. Wilson

Jamie K. Wilson is the wife of a US sailor and mother of two teen boys, one Marine, and two beautiful baby girls. The family hails from Louisville, Kentucky originally.  View profile

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  • Mrs Raventon3/12/2009

    Thank you! I haven't bought a swimsuit in years because I couldn't find one that would fit me. I have to this year though, so I'm glad you shared these tips.

  • Jamie K. Wilson8/17/2007

    I don't care much how I look either, but I admit to cringing when I see some chick's pot belly -- not pregnant, but fat -- sticking out in a poorly-fitting tankini or, worse, a bikini. Bad enough that men who shouldn't wear Speedos! Given a choice, I'd rather have a swimsuit that makes me look nice. (Of course, right now I look like a beach ball with a person growing out of it!)

  • Heather B.8/17/2007

    I have got to where I just don't worry how I look in a swimsuit. I'm there to be a mom, and if I get a few looks of disgust or if people balk at my stretch marks, tough shit! lol!

  • Jamie K. Wilson8/15/2007

    Bought them ONLINE? Courageous woman!

  • captdallas28/15/2007

    LOL My sig-other just bought three online this morning before reading this.

  • Angela Gordon8/12/2007

    Great tips! I have trouble finding a proper bathing suit every year, so this year I decided not to even try and am sticking to t-shirts and shorts when swimming.

  • Carol Gilbert8/10/2007

    Ha! Wait til your 30 something body ages 10 years and you are cramming yourself into an ancient relic of a bathing suit to avoid having to buy a new one...:)

  • Robin Ross8/10/2007

    you know I always said that one day i would wear a bikini after i lost enoguh weight. I guess it just isn't going to happen....

    Great Article. Thanks for the tips!

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