Tips for Handling Wild, Party People

A few times in our lives we may have dated someone who was very sincere but also very wild. Their energy levels were through the roof and they loved to dance party and have a great time. You think they are really nice but you are getting frustrated with all the drama and non-stop partying. How should you handle such a person?

Part of the solutions lies in how long you have been dating the other person. If it has only been a few months it is doubtful that they will want to change their lifestyle for you. However if you have been dating them for sometime you have a little more leverage. If they are attached to you, value your relationship and care about your feelings they may be willing to make some adjustments in their lifestyle.

If the relationship is new it is better to be a master of your own life before you try and change someone else. No one says that you have to go out with them every night or get plastered with them on the weekends. Live your life as you normally would and go out with them if you want to. If you are afraid of losing them then you don't really have a relationship to begin with because you are not yet secure enough to handle it.

However, if the relationship has been going on for sometime and you feel that the person could actually give up some of their partying then go ahead and tell them how you feel. Tell them how you prefer to focus a little more on other aspects of your life, how you would like to spend some alone time with them and how you appreciate all the fun you have had.

Don't forget to mention that you sill want to go out on occasion and party the night away. Just let them know that you aren't interested in doing it all the time. If you are lucky they are also interested in slowing down on the partying and developing something worth keeping. They may just be thrilled that you want to take the relationship to the next level.

If they don't respond in the way that you hope it becomes time for you to make a decision. You can either go out with them, which will likely damage your own goals in life, or you can choose not to go. If you decide that you are only going to party on the days you want to there is some risk they may meet someone who enjoys their lifestyle more. If that is the case you were probably better of separating anyway.