Tips for Making an Interracial Relationship a Success

There are challenges in any relationship however with a interracial relationship there is the added challenge of incorporating the two cultures harmoniously together. To help understand what are common challenges interracial relationships have and for tips for making an interracial relationship a success, I have interviewed therapist Aaron Tyrone Williams, MS, MFTI.

Tell me a little bit about yourself.
"I am a pre-licensed Marriage and Family Therapist here in Las Vegas ! I've been practicing in this field since January 2005. My specialty population includes but is not limited to; Interracial Couples, Bi-racial teens and adults, Pre-Marital and and Post-Martial Counseling. I'm also available for conferences, seminars, and other relational type workshops. Originally from New Jersey but live and work in Las Vegas since 1997."

What are common challenges interracial relationships have?
"The biggest challenge interracial couples have is multicultural issues. They don't fully understand the background each race brings into the relationship. Secondly, the lack of support of their families. Because the families may or may not agree with their relationship they may receive little or no support making it hard to solve problems. Acceptance by society is another factor. Many couples (depending on where they live) are shunned by their peers, co-workers, neighbors, law enforcement, and others due to their relationship. Some people will never be comfortable with the concept of interracial love no matter how far we've came on the subject of multiculturalism."

What are some tips for making an interracial relationship a success?
"Education is the key. Knowing what it is you're getting into. Yes, love is strong but in order to get through the things necessary to have a successful relationship, you must take the time to get to know that person's family history, culture, and the demographics of where they were raised. All of these things come into play when considering marriage, children, child-rearing, etc. Know who they are and accept their culture. Secondly, open communication. It makes things easier when you can talk to each other about most things that affect your culture and eventually your relationship. Ask them, (how important is this or that to your culture) shows respect for the other person's upbringing. Thirdly, shoring up support. Express your feelings to your families on how you feel about your relationship. Let them know it's beyond a phase but it's serious. It prepares them for the next step if you decide to go that route."

What type of professional help is available for interracial couples that are having a difficult time making their relationship a success?
"I would encourage them to seek out a Therapist/Counselor who has a background or is experienced in interracial relationships. It's challenging, but it's not complicated. Seek out groups in the area that focuses on interracial relationships in your area. Research other avenues; friends, colleagues, churches, etc; who understands or are sensitive to relational multiculturalism."

Thank you Aaron for doing the interview on tips for making an interracial relationship a success. For more information on Aaron Tyrone Williams or his work you can check out his website on www.aaronwilliamstherapy.com.