Tips: How to Take on and Keep a Man

Lizzie Elzingre
When you are in a committed relationship, it is easy to take your man for granted. You may settle in and be tempted to give less attention to the health of your relationship. The following relationship saving tips is for you all, more than ever for those who know the pain of lost love. Whatever you do, you must know the tips on How to Take On and Keep a Man.

Today, I am sharing a contribution sent to me by a friend who calls himself 'The Real Deal'. He said, "If you, my friends, want to know what some guys like and do not like. . . then you have to take note of the following:"

* Take the initiative, instead of expecting him to, always, be the aggressor
* Loosen up your inhibitions
* Think of dating as fun without weighing the relationship down with heavy emotional complications
* Give him some space to be with friends, without you, occasionally
* Don't expect or rush him to profess his love for you so soon
* Don't push him into a commitment or an exclusive relationship
* Don't spy on him
* Don't nag him into talking about his feelings
* Don't compare him with other man, instead, tell him what made you liked him
* Don't badmouth him
* Don't keep your ex around you just to drive him to jealousy

When your man asks about previous relationships, simply mention when it was, how long it lasted then change the subject. Focus on FUN. Keep discussions lively, interesting, and light. On the other hand, due to the daily rush, women tend to forget about romance and so I am sharing with you a must-have daily romantic tips on How to Take On and Keep a Man.

* Compliment your lover
* Tell your lover how much you love him, at least, seven times daily
* Spend, at least, an hour together daily
* Do something which both of you enjoy
* Call in to find out how things are with your partner
* Hug your partner when you get up in the morning
* Kiss and make up before going to bed
* Pray together

Romance is not a responsibility but it is caring about your responsibilities to your lover. In particular, you must remember No Investment = No Returns.

Today, techniques and aids on dating and relationships are available in every corner of the world. Yet, these have strange ways of messing with the natural karma of love. For whatever reason, when you try to get someone else to fall in love with you through an organized skill set like this, it has a way of ruining the magic for yourself.

Published by Lizzie Elzingre

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