Tips for Women: Spice Up Your Sex Life

Honestly, what's better than great sex? I am not talking about the bland, boring, routine sex, but the kind where you both are absolutely drained afterward and feeling "connected" . It doesn't have to end after years of marriage or even kids. Sex isn't dirty; it's supposed to be something special and exciting, shared between two people! It's not just the way of nature, but a way to connect with you spouse like no one else can. Ladies, you can have the best sex of your life until the end of your life! Here are some tips to make sure your sex life doesn't turn in to "blah".

Just do it!

Ok, sometimes women just aren't in the mood. But did you know that if you "just do it", your body will usually get aroused? Let your mind work with your body and focus on your partner. Don't worry about whether or not everything is working "down under". It will. Just relax and enjoy everything going on. Become one with your spouse during this time.

Breathe Together

Sound weird? It works! Start slow, and as your partner's breathing speeds up and gets heavier, mimic him. This not only will help you get in the mood, but it will turn extremely intimate.

Lots of Foreplay

There's nothing any worse than trying to have sex when you're not in the mood. That's what foreplay is for! Take your time and explore each other. No matter how long you've been married, you can learn something new each time.

Try New Things

Whether it being toys, gels, or whatever your liking, experiment with something new. Do a sex board game or dice. There are tons of different things from kinky to sensual. Keep it spiced up with different stuff.

"Do it" Somewhere Different

The bed can get old. When the kids go to down, go to the laundry room, the kitchen, the car. It doesn't matter, just somewhere different will put some of the thrill back into sex.

Prepare

Leave him some flirty messages or talk dirty to him on the phone. This won't just get him roused up, but you too! Pamper yourself before he gets home. Take a hot bath, shave, powder up, and put on something skimpy. The more you prepare your mind, the more you will get into it.

Get a Babysitter

Yes, a babysitter. Book a hotel room down the street or send the kids to grandmas. This way, you won't have to worry about waking them up or them waking up themselves. No interruptions leads to no worries.

Tell Him What Feels Good

If you don't tell him, he can't know. Your husband may think he is God's gift to women and doing things that absolutely have no effect on you. If you don't tell him, and show him, he will just keep it up and you will get nothing out of it.

Girls, it's a lot of times our fault that our sex lives go down the tubes. Either we are too tired, too stressed, or just don't have the drive. There are products out there to help with these things, so really, we have no excuse. Our husbands deserve to be taken care of at home, and that includes sex. Sex is very important for a happy and healthy marriage for both sides. Take it slow, and if you are one of the women out there that is really not happy, try these things without telling your husband. Take your time and don't feel pressured. You will find that you can have an exceptional sex life, while filling your marriage with intimacy.