To All the Sex Experts

I am like whoa and in awe over all of the sexual related articles on AC here lately. There is some very good advise and some I already knew about. I love the different aspects of this wonderful God given gift and the fact that we can all talk about it in a mature fashion.

In the fourteen years that I have been sexually active I can honestly say that these past few months I have actually gone without it for the longest time ever in those years. I remember saying that if I never have sex again, that will be alright. NOT!! I am going crazy. Just kidding. It does take self control and discipline to contain the urge, but I will take what I said back now, because I couldn't go the rest of my life without it. You can say that I definitely appreciate it now.

In my experience ( well you know what I mean) I wanted to share some I guess you can say 'ideas' or suggestions, if you will. We are all (mostly) mature adults and although I share these with you all, it certainly doesn't mean that you 'know' me or about me because there is always more then what meets the eye. There is always more than what someone shares in articles, books or what have you. This is to benefit the lovers out there that want to max out their climax. These aren't necessarily my experiences either, just things that I know a woman would want, including myself.

First of all, if there is no love involved in it, it really SUCKS bad. I say this because after awhile it becomes routine and boring. It is almost like a chore, really, with a climax or no climax.

Passion is of great importance. You can build passion with eye contact. There is nothing more sexy then looking into the eyes of your lover and following with a kiss. Then the kiss is important too. I believe looking through the eyes you can 'feel' the atmosphere and the type of passion to implement into the kiss you give, whether it be hot and sexy or soft and sensual. Body language baby. You can just feel it.

A submissive man is such a turn on. *Oh how I long for this*. Let her be in control. Tie his butt down LOL. Men think that a woman's neck is sexy. Hmmm. Women are the same guys. We love a hot sweaty neck. Let her bite the heck out of it. Allow her to hold your arms down. Get into it as well. Ya know with the moaning and groaning. Yes women are turned on by all this too.

Different positions. There are different ways that you can put yourself to hit the right spot, men. TALK about it. Allow her to move you around if need be. Ask her what she wants. She will love you for it. The higher the legs the better really, especially for women with long legs. Then of course wrapping them around him adds more passion and closeness. Closeness is good when you have time to spent making hot passionate love. Hugging and wrapping your legs around him in a missionary position is a beautiful expression and so passionate.

Then for the quickies. You want her to get hers too? Necking does it along with going from behind. Not behind, behind but ya know. Yes be quick yet be passionate and sexy about it. Not wham bam thank you ma'am either. Talking does wonders. Talk to her. Let her know that she feels good to you. Try it, take my word for it lol. Be seductive and sexy about it.

Okay breaking it all down.

1. Love - without it, don't even take my advice. If there is no love, sex just isn't right. Period!!

2. Passion, you will feel it in the body language and eye contact.

3. Communication. Reminds me of an old TLC song. YES I like plenty of conversation with my sex. Ask her what she wants. Tell her how good she feels.

4. Be the submissive man. Lionesses are in control whether you think so or not. She wants to be that sexy cat and you are her prey lol.

5. Positions. There are certain ways you can position yourself to help her get hers. Let her change those for you and direct you in the right position.

6. Necking and being sensual. Yes foreplay is good even for quickies. Quick necking, biting and kissing can help. Stand up and be sexy about it. That quickie can be a goodie too.

Well like I said I had to add my two cents into all of your sex articles. So here it is. I hope you all can learn from my advise. Like I said this is advice and not so much my experience. I am clueless, really :) Ha

Have fun!!!