Tooth Faerie Helper; A Dental Guide for Young Parents

One of the important and fun roles of being a parent or guardian is that of being the Tooth Faeries Helper. When a child losses their first tooth, it can be a traumatic event. The tooth is usually accompanied with a small amount of blood. A child will experience emotions of fear and guilt. They might even try to hide the tooth. The parents have a responsibility to explain what has happened and what will happen in the future. This article will give some helpful suggestions.

Dental Habits
Adults are always teaching dental hygiene to children. We teach them how and when to brush and floss. we explain the importance of visits to the dentist. We also have to guide them through the event of losing a tooth. As they get older, we might even have to work with them through the event of (ugh) braces. That's another issue for future consideration.

Lose Tooth Explanation
Loose teeth are a way of life. The first time a child has one can be upsetting. An adult needs to explain that this is a normal happening and that the tooth will be replaced by a new one in time. I would use a mirror to let the child view their missing tooth area. Doing this, gets them through the initial shock. This is a good opportunity to teach dental health.

The Fun Begins
If the child is young enough, explain that by placing the tooth in a piece of tissue under their pillow, the Tooth Faerie will come. Once the child goes to sleep, replace it with a small item. It could be anything from money to a small gift.

1. Money; Many parents leave coins. This has been a family tradition for many years. I don't like it because, children put things in their mouth. Coins are also easy to lose.
2. Candy; A few small candy items work well. (Add to those cavities)
3. Gifts; They have to be small enough not to wake the child. You could always place it on the night table next to the bed. Books are always a great idea. The "Little Golden Books" slide easily under a pillow.

Make it an Enjoyable Experience
Keep in mind whatever you decide to do is important, because the child will expect the same thing the next time. A parent has to stay on top of things. Forgetting to follow through could also be traumatic for the child. Eventually, the time will come to fess up. However, before that day comes, playing the part of the Tooth Faerie's Helper can be fun.