TOP 10 Rules of Seduction

Seduction Tips & Tricks

andra picincu
If you proposed to seduce a man, don't hesitate anymore: you have all the strengths you need.

There are women who, without looking like some models, manage to light the room with their presence. What is the secret? They respect the 10 commandments of seduction. Do you know these rules?

1. Be decided

In order to succeed, you must believe in your goals. So, to master the art of seduction, you need a lot of self confidence, making the desired man to believe that you're his dream woman. Don't give up from the first try; if you know what you want, you will succeed.

2. Show your strengths

Each person is unique in a way or another. We all have strengths and weaknesses; it is important to value our best parts and to hide our defects, without making a drama.

3. Keep your natural beauty

A little makeup makes miracles, but don't overdo. A lipstick in a very strong color, the layers of foundation or the traces left by mascara are not considered sexy by any man.

4. Trust yourself

Almost all men are attracted by self confident women. Learn to accept compliments with delicacy and to believe them when they say how beautiful you are. Of course, you shouldn't turn this self confidence into vanity or aggression.

5. Keep the mystery

No man should know everything about you. Keep a few secrets, surprise him, and make him understand that there is still more to find out about you. Also, you can try a trick to keep alive his interest: change your behavior in what concerns him. Of course, he doesn't need to believe that you have multiple personalities, but sometimes, it's better to be distant. The unpredictability will make you more interesting, and he will desire even more to seduce you, to make you have eyes only for him.

6. Be feminine!

Every man wants, in theory, a girlfriend who appreciates a cold beer and a football match. In practice, such a behavior will turn you into his friend and never into his life partner. Even if men seem not to like when you want to be pampered, they are fascinated by the feminine delicacy, by our elegance. So, let him call for a taxi and to open the door for you.

7. Talk carefully

One of the courtesans secrets was that they always knew when and what to say. The art of conversation is learned gradually; but you already know the essential facts: approach interesting topics, show yourself interested and don't bother him with all kind of less interesting details.

8. Sense of humor

As we want the man next to us to have the sense of humor, men also want to share a good joke with the woman next to them. It is said that humor is one of the greatest aphrodisiacs, so, you're free to laugh. Men like women who know to have fun. Of course, you shouldn't exaggerate, becoming the group's fool.

9. Find his weakness

I know you perceive him as being perfect, but he surely does have a weakness. Find what his weakness is and take advantage. It's not fair play, but in love, everything is allowed.

10. Don't give up

Don't be discouraged if it seems that he's unbeatable. Maybe he's fascinated exactly by the game itself. If, however, he doesn't react in any way, you should give up with dignity.

And remember: In the seduction game, there is only one rule: to not fall in love!

Published by andra picincu

I am a freelance writer/ copywriter with a background in marketing and psychology. After working for three years for well established companies, I have developed excellent editing, researching and writing sk...  View profile

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  • Michelle Garrett5/4/2010

    I like this article because, even as a married woman, it is important to investigate how to keep a man interested. ;)

  • Rachel de Carlos8/1/2009

    Wonderful advice, especially the sense of humor! :) I find a funny man to be very attractive.

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