Top 3 Things Needed for a Love Match

We all want and need to be loved. Not just by our family and friends. But by that one person that we can share our life with. That person that really "gets" us.

Don't look for the other to "complete" you but rather they should compliment you. Look for somebody that is the exact opposite of you and not an exact copy of you. You want to have Harmony, a balance in your relationship.

To this end there are 3 things that you should consider when you are looking to make that love match.

The first is the most obvious and direct one- PHYSICAL. We as human sexual creatures are attracted to what is visually appealing.

The exterior, the outside of the other person, their facade.

What you need to do is sit down and think about what your "must haves" are in the physical department.

Take into consideration such things as height, weight, hair and eye color, etc. Most Men put more emphasis into the physical aspect and are more superficial- that's the number one thing for them.
Most Women are more willing to give a fat and balding man a chance because the physical aspect is not the primary thing they look for.

Next one is EMOTIONAL. Is the person open and available emotionally in their heart, soul, their feelings good or bad. Can they express themselves. Seems easy enough we all as humans have emotions- anger, happiness and fear among them. But most men are less emotionally open and easily available as women are. This is an important point because communication is key to a successful and happy relationship.

The last one to think about is INTELLECTUAL, this one deals with their brain.

Are they smart, can they think, reflect and rationalize. Some people are smarter than others.

Some have "book" smarts. That is that they went to school and got an education.

Others have "street" smarts. That is called living life and learning through those experiences.

You have to think what you want and how important that is to you.

Bottom line is you want to take into consideration all 3 aspects, the Physical, Emotional and Intellectual and try to find that harmony, a balance between the three.

By doing this you will have a better chance at a love match.

But remember you don't have to settle for less.

Be willing to give as much as you are asking for.

Its never too late no matter what your age is.

Everyday is an opportunity to make that love match.

So be prepared with what you want and you just might get lucky. In the end all that matters is love. . .