Top 4 Books on Understanding Women

Just the fact that you're reading this makes me really impressed. It is a huge turn-on when guys read dating books or books about women! It shows that:

1. You understand women are different from men; that we have different needs.

2. You are humble. You are saying you don't know it all and could learn something from others.

3. You understand that love is work, not leisure.

4. You are willing to work at making a woman happy.

6. You want to understand women better.

I think people who go into relationships but don't even take any initiative to find out about how to deal with the opposite sex are like travelers who go to a foreign country and just expect to understand the new language and culture. Men and women are different. Just as much as our physical equipment is different, our internal equipment is different too. We think differently, we are driven by different things, we communicate differently, we process things differently, and we look at the world differently.

With all these factors in play, it's no wonder we just don't get each other. No wonder the divorce rate is so high. We begin to think that there is something inherently wrong with the person we are with. And there is: they are human. Besides that, they are just wired differently. So unless you want to be with someone of a completely different species or someone of the same sex, you just have to deal with someone of the opposite sex and get around to trying to understand their needs, their wants, their inner workings. Men with close female siblings or females with close male siblings have had some practice with this. They've already spent a part of their life living with and learning how to love the opposite sex. But even then, the dynamics in a romantic relationship are still different. When you put the sexual element into any relationship, that changes everything.

So here they are,the best books for understanding the opposite sex in no particular order:

1. Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus

2. Mars and Venus on a date

3. Men are Like Waffles, Women are Like Spaghetti

4. His Needs, Her Needs

I know that men are primarily motivated by two things: sex and success. Women, oh women are not so simple. We don't try to be complicated. We just are complicated. Ask any man who's in a satisfying marriage. Even after years of being with their wives, they are still mystified, fascinated and highly confused by them. And they're happy nonetheless. Her many layers, roles and facets don't make him run away, they make him stay. Men, listen up. Get in the know. Pick up a dating book. You'll be grateful that you did.