He is interested in your life - Men, who care, will care. This is the first rule to remember. If he becomes self-possessed and does not seem to wonder how your life is going, then questions are reasonable. A man who loves you will never stop asking about your life and wondering how he can make it better for you.
He shares your favorite pastimes - While not a deal breaker, any man who continues to be active in your favorite pastimes, even though you understand he does not like them, loves you. One of the most important things for a man in a relationship is connection. The context and content does not matter. He just wants to be with you.
He calls you frequently - Does it really matter why he is calling? Are you not glad that he is? A man who is involved with his relationship and in love with you will always call. When there is a thought on his mind and he wants your opinion, when he just wants to see if you are ok, and sometimes it will be just because he misses you. If you've argued with him and you ignore those calls, be aware that the action does not escape your mans attention. Consider the alternative, he could never call and wait for you to do it. Next time, pick up that phone when it rings, otherwise you will not know how he has thought to express his love and apologies.
He brags about you to his family & friends - Sometimes you may feel he talks ad nauseum about you. However, put yourself in his shoes and see how proud your man is of you and how lucky he feels to be a part of your life. He shows this in the greatest way possible, he tells his family and friends. For a man, including family and friends on the details of his relationship is a very big step for him in that relationship. If he is talking about you, he loves you - guaranteed.
He tries to be nice to your family & friends - Some women may not like the idea of their significant other being friends with their friends. Such issues as friends being caught in the middle during problems may arise. However, just the notion that your man cares to be nice to family and friends and have positive interactions with them shows that he cares about the people that you care for. He wants to please you and make you happy.
He never stops romancing you - No matter how busy your man is, does he set time aside for you? Forget setting time aside, does he actually make time for you? If so, you are looking at a man who loves you. He will stop caring about his own stresses to relieve you of yours. He will send you an email, leave you a sticky note, write you a letter or leave a message on your machine when he knows you are not around to pick up the phone. He spends your time together relaxing you and occasionally giving you a present or a card. That kind of attentiveness cannot be faked. He is in love.
He says so, in so many ways - Every action may show his feelings for you, but no action is more certain than a verbal expression. The tone of his voice and the look in his eyes, the wrap of his arms around your shoulders as he whispers he loves you should leave you with no reservation about how he feels. Some people feel that saying 'I love you' too often makes it less special. For a man, saying I love you is the height of his expression of his feelings for you. The more you hear it, let it be known, the more he feels it.
Now, you ask if anything else that will tell you if he loves you. Your answer is--What else do you need? These simple signs are tried and true. His willingness to perform these actions will show you that your man loves you.
Published by Greg Wendland
Born in Michigan, Greg has lived in several states and abroad. He is a self-proclaimed 'Student of Human Nature'. He enjoys working as a Freelance Writer as well as owning and operating a computer repair bu... View profile
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Post a Commentwhen do i know he really love or care about me?
i am dating a guy, but he is not in the country. at a particular time he told is over between. he does tn love me again. but if i need any thing from him i should let him know. that i am his wife to be but now we are still friends. he continue saying is over. in this case what should i do?
I got married last April to an Oversea husband, not only do i miss his prescence, his family members makes life miseable for me here. now, i've decided to quit the marriage and find new love but the new guy is no where close to what i want in a man but i still love him like mad. am i doing the right thing or just playing along cos as it is now, AM CONFUSED.
i am in a relation now it's really hard for me to set him free i guess i do love him that much and i can see that he can't tell a secret his been hiding it a year im planning to broke him up this coming april 5 for i want that both of us can spend time to think about every thing....
i v a guy i v spent two years with him but he got married resently .should i let him go?
Great article! Being "Ms Strong, Independent Woman", who can "do my own thing"- I let a great guy slip through my life. My heart and eyes are open now. The article is true! A man who is interested in you- wants to help the woman he cares for and loves. ALL YOU" MS. INDEPENDENTS" - OPEN YOUR EYES! WAKE UP OR BE ALONE FOREVER!
I guess my husband doesn't love me, seeing how he does none of these things.
Well, I do not get anything I am for sure this man does not care anything about me. It hurts so much to call him and he never returns my calls.
MY MAN LOVES ME A LOT..HE DO EVERYTHING THAT WAS MENTIONED PLUS MORE!
my bf and i are about to break up ... i really loved him , though very confused about him and his feelings i tryed not to care... he used to look through my eyes n say i love u ... i can never forget those times ... his eyes were really bright and filled with love for no doubt ... but he allways talked about leaving me and going abroad ... days a go i told him i love u so much and as u are planning to leave me iam worried about myself ...after that he left me simply ... no more call ... no more see ... thats what thoes bright eyes were trying to say all the times, that i will leave u soon, the moment u say i love u i will be gone ... so simple!